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basically this girl broke up with her ex about 6 weeks ago and we've been chatting and arranged dates but lately shes gone a bit cold so ive backed off, im pretty sure her ex is back in the picture. is there any thing I can do to prevent her going back? ive been told to go cold on her? wont that just open the door to him? would really appreciate some advice.
To start with you can't make anyone do anything. All you _can_ do is make sure you stay interesting enough that what she wants is you.
The problem here may not even be her ex, it might be that she just lost interest. Hell, you might have just been her transition guy and now she's transitioned.