So I met this lass yesterday, very cute HB8, quite open. I opened her at the bar, then rapidly escalated to a kiss close. Then, when I triedto kiss her again she was pulling away quuite quickly, or moving her lips away, like if she was teasing me. Then I kissed her again, and then she was teasing again. I sensed she was uneasy about sth so it turned out she had her boyfriend with her that night! I still got her number and we "agreed" to meet up tomorrow. I texted her today, she replied very quickly and I said I wil call her later to talk the details of tomorrow.

Now I have two questions:

1. Considering it was a party night when we discussed the fact that we want to meet up again, I am slightly worried she might have some reservations today. How should I battle any potential resistance when talking to her on the phone?

2. How should I play out Monday, considering she will meet up? Should I slow down a bit considering she's in a relationship?

Thanks lads for all replies

Who cares if she has a boyfriend? If you make her happier, that's all that matters. Escalate.

Hm, weird. She did not respond to any of my calls today... Seems like she changed her mind

That depends on your own morality. Does the idea of stealing someone's girlfriend make you feel guilty? If not go for it.

Ok, she sent a text today saying "I know it looked different on Saturday, but... I don't know how to say this but I have a boyfriend and I cannot meet with you". That's fair (although a bit unlucky), but I want to reply something so that it fucks up with her a bit and won't push me in the comfort zone.

I believe she is not very happy with her relationship (at least that was the impression I got on Sat) so I wanted to reply sth on the line: "Hey, no worries, I am not the jealous type :p Most important that you are happy with your situations and decisions you make". Is that good or terrible?