There is a girl I have dated a few times, but we haven't seen much of each other recently. She doesn't post much to facebook and I noticed a few weeks back that she went to a party and posted a pic of her with 3 others. One of the girls in the pic was a girl who I am friends with on facebook and who there has been some banter on the wall with. They are now facebook friends.

She went away recently for a weekend and got friendly with a male friend of mine who was on the trip. he is not a threat.. very much just makes friends with girls like her and no balls to close. She phoned me last week and I said 'oh so you are not friendly with X?.. she was like 'oh you know him?.. yeha hes a nice guy' etc..
(me and this guy are friends already on facebook and there are some pics with of me with him)
The next evening she met him and another girl and posted it to facebook. Obviously knew I would see it.

Could be a coincidence but I just wander if this pattern is familiar when a girl who likes you starts to befriend your friends to get your attention or something like that..
She is a bit of a game player so it wouldn't surprise me..

thoughts?

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Don't make a big deal out of it, you'll make yourself look like a stalker.
Just be casual and ask her out if that is what you want.
If not, then let it be and let her befriend anyone, no big deal.

We have been talking and I am trying to get her out on another date. Not making a big deal of it to her at all. Just kind of mentioned it in a positive way to her and general chit chat. She is free to befriend anyone, no issues with that. I am just interested to know if this is a pattern for some girls.

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Don't worry, you're heading on the right track.
It's better if she even gets to know your friends, it'll build higher and faster trust between you guys.

Hi

Not sure what you meant by heading on right track?
I don't disagree that its a bad thing. A good thing if anything.. but I am trying to work out still if this is something girls do and if the pattern is familiar..

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