| You know, in the PUA world, every move, every little progress done, maybe means something, conveys something. Now, the fact that you just grab your phone, and send her a text telling her something before she does to you, isn't going to destroy you, doesn't mean that your game is ruined! That you're fucked up and you've turned into a Beta Male. No, what if, you just plan to do something fun every week, be genuinely interesting, genuinely fun, and for the time she arrives, you will tell her that's her lucky day, because you got something so amazing to do, and she won't want to lose it, you're inviting her, with friends or whatever, and she has to go! So this 'little move' (Sending the first text message) becomes genuine and not a mindblowing fact, of "Should I? Now or later? Today or tomorrow? After she speaks to me or before? Omg I don't know!"
This way it's not going to be something robotic, something you break your head doing, something that isn't going to be stressful, you're with me?
Good luck.
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