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Hey guys! :) I'm Eddie Fews a New York City dating coaching, I noticed that a lot of guys get caught up on what to text a girl back, so I am making this thread to help you guys out when you get stuck.

I'll be checking this as frequently as I can, so post what ever text message you get here and I'll give you a attraction building response!

Who's First? :)

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she texts: ahm,ok!


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she texts: ahm,ok!
This may be a little late, but provide me with a bit of backround information.. like 2-3 text before.

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Not text but online messages. I hope that still counts:

Her: Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
me: you can take me out for coffee and i'll tell you all you want to know
her: cheeky monkey
me: hey, you keep calling me names and i won't let you take me out for coffee
her: oh dear, silly me
me: are you humouring me?
her: well i am a pisces
me: does that mean you're going to put a dampener on my fire?
her: no but pisces fish like to be chased lol
me: leo lions aren't used to being chased. they're used to people falling at their feet...
her: dead end.
her: i'm bored now. good luck. bye.

I'm thinking as I'm the prize i'm not going to dignify her with a response.


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Not text but online messages. I hope that still counts:

Her: Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
me: you can take me out for coffee and i'll tell you all you want to know
her: cheeky monkey
me: hey, you keep calling me names and i won't let you take me out for coffee
her: oh dear, silly me
me: are you humouring me?
her: well i am a pisces
me: does that mean you're going to put a dampener on my fire?
her: no but pisces fish like to be chased lol
me: leo lions aren't used to being chased. they're used to people falling at their feet...
her: dead end.
her: i'm bored now. good luck. bye.

I'm thinking as I'm the prize i'm not going to dignify her with a response.
From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.

Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."

I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome! ;)"

Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...

Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.

This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.

"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you. :)" just as a playful joke.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 4:19 pm 
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Not text but online messages. I hope that still counts:

Her: Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
me: you can take me out for coffee and i'll tell you all you want to know
her: cheeky monkey
me: hey, you keep calling me names and i won't let you take me out for coffee
her: oh dear, silly me
me: are you humouring me?
her: well i am a pisces
me: does that mean you're going to put a dampener on my fire?
her: no but pisces fish like to be chased lol
me: leo lions aren't used to being chased. they're used to people falling at their feet...
her: dead end.
her: i'm bored now. good luck. bye.

I'm thinking as I'm the prize i'm not going to dignify her with a response.
From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.

Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."

I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome! ;)"

Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...

Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.

This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.

"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you. :)" just as a playful joke.
Wow. Great advice. Thanks. I'll let you know what happens with that new thread. if anything. :-)


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Here's a textual conversation with another woman that happened today after our first date last night:

me: hey *****, how are your feet today?
her: hey, thanks for asking, well i have two big blisters one in each one. haha anyway will cure with time i guess. x
me: yes. time is always a great curer. that or long sensuous foot rubs. have a great day.
her: you too. speak laters. x


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 6:29 pm 
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Not text but online messages. I hope that still counts:

Her: Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
me: you can take me out for coffee and i'll tell you all you want to know
her: cheeky monkey
me: hey, you keep calling me names and i won't let you take me out for coffee
her: oh dear, silly me
me: are you humouring me?
her: well i am a pisces
me: does that mean you're going to put a dampener on my fire?
her: no but pisces fish like to be chased lol
me: leo lions aren't used to being chased. they're used to people falling at their feet...
her: dead end.
her: i'm bored now. good luck. bye.

I'm thinking as I'm the prize i'm not going to dignify her with a response.
From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.

Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."

I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome! ;)"

Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...

Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.

This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.

"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you. :)" just as a playful joke.
Ok. Here's how it went.

me: hi, you're handsome. I wanna know more about you :-)
her: i've got bored. don't want to waste my time. bye.
me: Awesome. You don't like being bored or wasting your time and I like strong, confident women who are not afraid to stand their ground. So far so good. :-)
her: don't know what to make of that.
me: Oh come now! You can do better than that. You were doing so well up until then. I'll give you another chance only this time try to put some effort into it. :-)
her: just block me, delete me, whateva.
me: doing well, aren't we? we sound like a married couple already. lol
her: i can't be bothered to write.
me: so stop writing. lol.

right. none of this pua stuff anymore. i'm doing this my way from now on. no funny tricks. no cocky fucking funny...i'm just gonna be me. im already fucking funny. i dont need noo tricks...


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Change and adaption are parts of life bro, if you stay on the same level many will rise above you.

Nevertheless, I respect it.

There is no point in me even commenting on you're thread now I guess ;)

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Not text but online messages. I hope that still counts:

Her: Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you.
me: you can take me out for coffee and i'll tell you all you want to know
her: cheeky monkey
me: hey, you keep calling me names and i won't let you take me out for coffee
her: oh dear, silly me
me: are you humouring me?
her: well i am a pisces
me: does that mean you're going to put a dampener on my fire?
her: no but pisces fish like to be chased lol
me: leo lions aren't used to being chased. they're used to people falling at their feet...
her: dead end.
her: i'm bored now. good luck. bye.

I'm thinking as I'm the prize i'm not going to dignify her with a response.
From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.

Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."

I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome! ;)"

Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...

Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.

This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.

"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you. :)" just as a playful joke.
Ok. Here's how it went.

me: hi, you're handsome. I wanna know more about you :-)
her: i've got bored. don't want to waste my time. bye.
me: Awesome. You don't like being bored or wasting your time and I like strong, confident women who are not afraid to stand their ground. So far so good. :-)
her: don't know what to make of that.
me: Oh come now! You can do better than that. You were doing so well up until then. I'll give you another chance only this time try to put some effort into it. :-)
her: just block me, delete me, whateva.
me: doing well, aren't we? we sound like a married couple already. lol
her: i can't be bothered to write.
me: so stop writing. lol.

right. none of this pua stuff anymore. i'm doing this my way from now on. no funny tricks. no cocky fucking funny...i'm just gonna be me. im already fucking funny. i dont need noo tricks...
You should have ejected after the bolded line, what happened later on is you just humiliated yourself, its painful to read that stuff :)
Not only you wrote her after getting the "I am bored, get lost" line for the second time, but also went into giving compliment mode after she bitchslapped you twice.
And after that compliment line, when she rejected you once again - total humiliating creepy stalking mode :D


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From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.

Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."

I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome! ;)"

Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...

Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.

This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.

"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you. :)" just as a playful joke.
Ok. Here's how it went.

me: hi, you're handsome. I wanna know more about you :-)
her: i've got bored. don't want to waste my time. bye.
me: Awesome. You don't like being bored or wasting your time and I like strong, confident women who are not afraid to stand their ground. So far so good. :-)
her: don't know what to make of that.
me: Oh come now! You can do better than that. You were doing so well up until then. I'll give you another chance only this time try to put some effort into it. :-)
her: just block me, delete me, whateva.
me: doing well, aren't we? we sound like a married couple already. lol
her: i can't be bothered to write.
me: so stop writing. lol.

right. none of this pua stuff anymore. i'm doing this my way from now on. no funny tricks. no cocky fucking funny...i'm just gonna be me. im already fucking funny. i dont need noo tricks...
You should have ejected after the bolded line, what happened later on is you just humiliated yourself, its painful to read that stuff :)
Not only you wrote her after getting the "I am bored, get lost" line for the second time, but also went into giving compliment mode after she bitchslapped you twice.
Yep. Nothing says desperate more than a guy who continues after the girl basically tells him to eff off.


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From the looks of this, you are taking the whole cocky funny thing a bit too far, it coming across as unattractive and ugly. What you want to do is provide the girl with fun and flirty conversation. You mannerism says " You have to chase me" however you do not say these things verbally. She really put herself out their by paying you a compliment and coming after you first. She was already chasing you, to push it further creates the opposite effect. You were beating a dead horse on that one buddy.

Now lets say a girl wrote to me "Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you."

I would project to her that she has to try a bit harder and chase me more by simplifying replying with " Awesome! ;)"

Now she has to provide me with more conversation to hold my interest, I'm subtly saying " Try harder".. Girls do it to us all the time. She will then begin asking questions about you because she has already put herself out there and too give up now would make her look like an idiot. Instead you annoyed her and bored her...

Too many guys misinterpret the cocky funny... Keep it, "Fun and Flirty" and when a girl is chasing you, encourgae her to continue to do some, subtly and playfully, not directly.

This thread has ended, what I suggest you do now is start a new thread with her using her exact same line.

"Hi you're handsome, i would like to know more about you. :)" just as a playful joke.
Ok. Here's how it went.

me: hi, you're handsome. I wanna know more about you :-)
her: i've got bored. don't want to waste my time. bye.
me: Awesome. You don't like being bored or wasting your time and I like strong, confident women who are not afraid to stand their ground. So far so good. :-)
her: don't know what to make of that.
me: Oh come now! You can do better than that. You were doing so well up until then. I'll give you another chance only this time try to put some effort into it. :-)
her: just block me, delete me, whateva.
me: doing well, aren't we? we sound like a married couple already. lol
her: i can't be bothered to write.
me: so stop writing. lol.

right. none of this pua stuff anymore. i'm doing this my way from now on. no funny tricks. no cocky fucking funny...i'm just gonna be me. im already fucking funny. i dont need noo tricks...
You should have ejected after the bolded line, what happened later on is you just humiliated yourself, its painful to read that stuff :)
Not only you wrote her after getting the "I am bored, get lost" line for the second time, but also went into giving compliment mode after she bitchslapped you twice.
i did. it was eddie few's idea to keep going. not that i care. i'm pretty much used to humiliation. one more isn't going to make any difference...


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Ok. Here's how it went.

me: hi, you're handsome. I wanna know more about you :-)
her: i've got bored. don't want to waste my time. bye.
me: Awesome. You don't like being bored or wasting your time and I like strong, confident women who are not afraid to stand their ground. So far so good. :-)
her: don't know what to make of that.
me: Oh come now! You can do better than that. You were doing so well up until then. I'll give you another chance only this time try to put some effort into it. :-)
her: just block me, delete me, whateva.
me: doing well, aren't we? we sound like a married couple already. lol
her: i can't be bothered to write.
me: so stop writing. lol.

right. none of this pua stuff anymore. i'm doing this my way from now on. no funny tricks. no cocky fucking funny...i'm just gonna be me. im already fucking funny. i dont need noo tricks...
You should have ejected after the bolded line, what happened later on is you just humiliated yourself, its painful to read that stuff :)
Not only you wrote her after getting the "I am bored, get lost" line for the second time, but also went into giving compliment mode after she bitchslapped you twice.
Yep. Nothing says desperate more than a guy who continues after the girl basically tells him to eff off.
Nothing says 'no life' more than a guy with 372 posts in a little over a month. :D


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