| Hey forum its been a while!
So here's where I'm at. My mentality is to spin plates. I meet girls at parties, in class or by coincidence, get their numbers, then keep them spinning. But this system hasn't worked for me recently! The last time I got "laid" was about 3 weeks ago. I slept in the girls bed after a concert and when I tried to stick it in she insisted "no, no!" so I stopped. Turns out she is a virgin, needless to say I haven't been out with her again.
But that's part of it. If a girl isn't working out, I drop her. So there's one girl that I was close friends with for a while. When I met her I had a girlfriend, so I maintained a comfortable, flirty relationship. Eventually I became single, and she got a man. When I went to lunch with her recently she wouldn't stop talking about him. It made me jealous.
When we left I texted her and reluctantly (she pushed me into it sort of) exposed my "feels." Usually never tell a girl your emotions over text message, but I told her I liked her and asked her on a date. She said no. I dropped her and didn't speak to her for a while.
She messaged me "I miss you" a week or two later. I spun the conversation and told her I would go on a date with her in a few weeks. Well, guys, the time has come!! I set up a date for this Friday and she seems excited.
So here's the hook. I'm not outcome-dependent, I know at least 2 other girls that have a lot of potential in my life. But I also want a successful date. We're in a small college town and she works as an RA and doesnt drink.
My plan is to take her for ice cream, leave and kiss her, but then what?? Should I make a move to get her in my dorm room watching a movie, or should we go for a walk and make out on a park bench?
I don't want to scare her off. If anyone knows a good reason or line to get her from ice cream into my dorm room 5 minutes away, post it here.
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