Hi guys
Remember me? I am the guy that was called a murderer by the MILF last week. Remember we had a nice connection and everything? And then I chickened out and didn’t get her number?

Today I met her again I really messed up and I am wondering if there is anything that can be done.
So I will be honest. I have been thinking about her so I decided to hang out in the same area at the same time. And believe it or not, there she was, getting into the shopping mall. When I saw her, she was just getting on the escalator. I wasn’t completely sure if it was her though. So I ran from across the street onto the escalator.

At this point, we were both off the escalator in the mall. So I saw her from behind, and I thought “no, that can’t be her, her ass was smaller last week” I wanted to see her face, so I walked faster and passed her by. A few steps ahead, I looked around like I am looking for something. Then I turned around to walk the opposite direction so I can see her face.

Then she came up to me and said “are you lost? Can I help you?” I suddenly realized it’s her and this really caught me off guard. I didn’t know what the fuck to say so I just said “I am just looking for something….” While looking at the floor, not into her eyes.

She said “are you looking for a store?”
I don’t even know what the hell I said at this point I just babbled nonsense. Seriously, what I said was something a non-talking baby babbles. It’s was not English.
Then she walked away and said “you don’t know who I am, do you?” I said “ohhhhhh, you are the lady with the porn….right?” she said “yes”
Then she said “what are you doing here?” in an accusing way, I think she had realized I had followed her. I said “I am just taking a break” she said “a break from what?” I said “I was just at the coffee shop and decided to take a break and come to the mall” she said “what coffee shop?” again in an accusing tone. I said “the coffee shop across the street” she said “do you work?” I said “no” she said “why not?” I said “because I am addicted to porn” she said “na, you work” I said “Yeah I work” she said “where do you work?” I said “I own my own business” she said “doing what?” I said “internet marketing, and you?” she said “I work at this mall”
Then she said “I don’t want you to know where I work” I said “why not?” she said “because you frighten me, you said you don’t murder the first time, this is the second time” I said “well, I murder during the night only, I don’t do it during the day” she said “so I would have to run into you at night?” I said “yes”
Then she said “so are you gonna follow me to my work?” I said “do you WANT me to follow you?” she said “no”
Then I said “ok” and left.

And I never made eye contact with her, I looked at the floor during the entire interaction.
I don’t know what the hell went wrong here, I just wasn’t in the right state.
Is there any way to recover from this? What should I do?

Move on, your major issue is scarcity, you need to approach and open more chicks and completely forget about this one. All the time you spent stalking this weak prospect that you initially flubbed could have been used to prospect and open new woman.

Dude... it seems like she was trying to flirt with you.

I know oneitis is bad and totally not recommended but...I dont want other women, I only want her
how do I sort out this mess? I think I can "accidentally" run into her again.
is there anything I can do to get her into me again?

Dude, I think I can help you. Part of pua is reverse psychology. If you "accidentally" run into her, you can say, "Ok, you need to stop following me or I'm foibg to press charges. My 5 girlfriends won't like this missy " in a playfully way. Use what the girl is putting on you, back on HER. YOUR the object to be desired.

Another thing is, you got afraid when she was accusing you. She over-powered you, when she wasnt even trying and just flirting with you. You need to 1 make eye-contact and here's a big rule...

Woman are naturally emotionally creatures, logic is secondary. Whenever a woman gets logical with you she's either trying to find something out of something's wrong.

In this case, she got logical with you in a joking way, you weren't suppose to give her a straight answer. Tease her, mess with her instead of acting like she's your teacher and she caught you doing something bad in class lol. If anything you hv to mess up in order to get better, if you don't fail you aren't learning.

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Ha ha - she WAS totally trying to flirt with you, but not making eye contact throughout an entire encounter seems creepy as fuck.

Not sure if this one is salvageable though... I mean what are the impacts of 'accidentally' running into her a 3rd time?

You are encouraging a guy who is a borderline obsessive stalker, maybe not so borderline, if you see this story on the news you are gonna feel poorly.

Completely agree. My post stating "what are the impacts of 'accidentally' running into her a 3rd time?" was meant to imply a restraining order might be one of the impacts.

@ OP: Let's not be silly - you don't know this girl at all. I really don't think this is salvageable. It's more a lesson for the future... Don't stalk. Eye contact. Attaboy.