I'm creating this thread because it seems there are a lot of questions asked and statements made that honestly don't deserve their own thread. This thread is for those nagging thoughts, stupid situations and simple quick questions that you may have eating at you. If you have something useless to add about your game, dating life or women in general. Post it here rather than start a new thread.

I'll start things off.

Saturday I went out with some friends. The bar was busy, but the girls were less than top choice. I made the rounds. Ended up settling on a HB6 who despite having a great body and really cute Romanian accent, was pretty low for my standards. But when you're given lemons, you do your best with making juice. So I decide to make my way to a one night stand. Long story short. He friends intervened as were leaving. So I stayed a bit longer, gamed a few other girls and basically gave up on the place. Started to leave and tried one last time to get her to come along. She insists she can't ditch her friends. I say my goodbye and she asks for my number. I told her I didn't give out my number. She basically begs me for it. Tells me she'll come over the next night. I finally say fuck it and tell her I'll just get hers. The next day comes, my day two with another chich ends without a lay. So I once again throw caution to the wind and text the girl... it's been more than 24 hours withouta reply

Why beg for my number if you're not going to respond?

The likely reason is that she just craved the validation from either getting your number or you texting her. Or both. Or perhaps at that moment she got your number she was into you but it faded the next day. The reality is you will never know for sure exactly why she didn't reply to you. That's why it's critical for you to just let these mysteries slide off you and to just roll with it. There are a million reasons why a girl that seemed interested will suddenly drop off the radar. Many of them are outside of your control. All you can do is be aware of your own actions and evaluate if there was anything you could have done better.
But at the end of the day, there are plenty of other women to meet.

Sometimes you just have a shitty night. Case in point. Opened more than 30 sets last night... I went with the goal of talking to every good looking girl in the club. Got blown out by all but three. Kiss closed one and got denied on the other two n-closes. Didn't leave with anyone. I felt really good. Looked really good. Was having a blast and girls were really receptive when I opened (I had initial attraction). But I just couldn't seem to string the right words together. It was like I was being awkward... my conversations just sucked.

Anyone else have this problem? I felt like my brain was buffering all night. Just couldn't string my thoughts together properly. I tripped oover words more than once but wasn't feeling nervous.

Meh it happens, I was gaming a hired-gun last night had good body language OK eye contact but dribbled a lot of pointless crap, even if I know I'm doing an average job I just stay composed and act like I dont care, despite my so-so job i caught her looking at me a few times when I was walking around, and that was probably down to purely my "don't give a shit" vibe.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

When I've been in hot springs it seemed like girls weren't ready to hit the sheets until 4-430 am. Maybe you aren't staying up late enough....

My opening is REALLY rusty right now, I have AA real bad after a recent break up, need to get back into the swing of things.

Sometimes my kino escalation can go awry. I have a shit ton of weaknesses that I really need to work on, the biggest one being my inner game. But girls who are attracted to me do a lot of the work for me because, without sounding too arrogant, I am pretty goodlooking.

I was in little rock. But stayed till 4:00. I was the problem.

AA is an irrational fear.

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That's what's up. I never had much luck in little rock. The girls remind me of Dallas girls....attention whores who flirt to get free drinks.

Its like they are all regulars and try to prey on beta guys from out of town...i called several of the girls out and they seemed to get a kick out of it.

Also, I went to this one place way out called the electric cowboy and it was a helluva time, but you better have friends because apparently there are fights every night because of all the rednecks.

You called it, man. I'm originally from DFW. So I know the girls you're talking about. Even more funny, the one girl I kissed lost all interest after I wouldn't buy her a drink. She was completely invested, we were outside talking and she said she wanted to get a drink. With her hand in mine, we made our way to the bar. I placed my order and she didn't say anything... so I paid for my drink and looked at her. She seemed lost. I asked what if she was going to order anything but she didn't know what she wanted. Finally she gets the bartenders attention and buys herself a drink. She and I make our way to a table. But she's cold. She makes the comment "I wonder where my friends are?" And proceeded to text them. She had also told me earlier that she loves going out with this particular gay friend because he buys her drinks all night. He's the one she texted to find us. I could tell the fook was gone and bounced to another set I knew.

The cowboy can be awesome or terrible. You never know.

I was at this spot on Bill Clinton 2 years ago and I had girls ask me to buy them drinks 6-7 different times. It was this crazy piano bar can't remember the name.

Anyway, I always tell them I dont buy drinks on the first date, which weeds out the ones who were approaching for any other reason than to talk to me. When they obviously want a free drink, I will intentionally go find them later and buy a fat round of shots for the folks im with right in front of them lol.

Anyway, yeah Little rock was just a bunch of wannabe's who think they are hot just because they are under 150 lbs, and some were pushing that weight pretty close. I was surprised how different it is from hot springs seeing as they are only an hour away from each other.

Ernie Bigs is the place you're talking about. Seems LLittleRock has more hot girls. Hot Springs has more girls who are DTF.