I've been getting my hair cut for the last couple times by this incredibly beautiful young babe at this place near my house. She is pretty much perfect - pretty face, big tits, nice legs, etc...


Anyways, my first time, I was a little bit on the awkward side so nothing special happened. Last time I went there, I felt very confident and I was very strong with our conversations - I let her work for my attention (which I'm sure was a pleasant change for her from all the guys who try to follow her around like a puppy). I could tell she was a lot more comfortable with me and was starting to open up a lot more to me. She talked a lot more last time and got a lot more personal in the conversations. At the end, when I was about to pay for the haircut, she made it last much longer than it had to be and the whole thing took about 15 minutes more than it had (obviously I didn't mind at all). I think she is single too...I asked her several times if she had any plans of any kind and she never made any mentions of a boyfriend


I really really wanna ask her out but I'm just trying to figure out how. I actually wanna buy some shampoo from that place, should I just go in and ask for her and buy it from her (and then ask her out on the spot?) or is it better to wait till I get my haircut next time to ask her out?


I feel like I have a better chance by asking her out after a haircut cause I can build more rapport but I don't wanna wait a lot longer...a girl like that will be out of the market very soon

Remember part of her job is to be sociable with customers and it may be easy to read IOIs that aren't actually anything significant.

If however you do decide to ask her I would advise against buying the shampoo and asking her then. It will seem like a lame excuse even if you genuinely want the shampoo. Either go in and be direct or wait until your next haircut.

Good luck!

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I agree but I just felt like my confidence/game was absolutely on point so that's why I wanted to ask her out

any more opinions on this?

Try to recall if she pressed her fingers on your shoulder muscles (trapezius). If she did (several times is best), you can go hard core direct and escalate more aggressively than usual. She's horny for you.

If not, go slow and steady with your game-- maybe even go indirect.

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I've actually done this in a similar scenario (asking out someone in a service profession). I presume this salon is in a shopping center and/or there is a place near by to grab lunch. Go in around 11-12 and ask to see her. When she walks up. Just say "Hey, do you want to have lunch?" When she starts to make up excuses, or says she's not off or whatever. Just say "that's cool" with a smile. Then without any hesitation or reaction of being let down, tell her "Well hey. I'm going to walk over to XXXXXX for lunch... if you change your mind." Then walk out. When I did this the girl showed up about 10 minutes later. If nothing else. Ask her out again when you're getting your hair cut too. Becauseif she does turn you down, sshe'll blame it on the job. You can still go in and get your shampoo at any time.

This actually just reminded me of a scene in a movie too. (Probably the greatest B movies of all time BTW.) But when Peter asks out Joanna. The way he did it was absolutely spot on.

http://www.hark.com/clips/mfrgjxptbw-i- ... -for-lunch

For the most part, I discourage folks from asking girls out while they are working. I suggest finding out where she hangs out and engineer a situation where you will run into her.

Or, send a girl in there to get her hair done and get the girl to help set it up....she can just tell the girl to come hang out. When you come around, you've already got an in.

I agree with you for the most part but charisma is charisma and you can attract a girl anywhere with it. Engineering a meet up outside of work doesn't seem to be an option - I've asked her a few times about her plans on a friday/saturday night and doesn't seem to go out all that much


I don't have any girls who could do that for me and that's an awful lot of work for a girl who I don't even know if she likes me

Nah man, its easier than u think I do it all the time. The thing about girls on the clock is that many of them are too concentrated on the job to let themselves go and let the attraction take place. Plus, she might have a personal or company policy against dating clients. If it happens by accident, well, wasn't her fault right?

If u don't have a girl, I'm sure you have a friend that does...a friends girlfriend can be a great wing. You just have to play up the surprise so it looks like a coincidence. Girls are suckers for that shit.