Rapport, Attraction and Connection



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 8 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 8:04 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Thu Mar 14, 2013 3:51 pm
Posts: 31
So far I know how to strat conversation with women but I don't know how to get a phone number.

My question is what's the difference between Rapport, Attraction and Connection. what is the sequence and what comes after that?
English is not my first language so I'm sorry if the question sounds stupid.


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:20 pm 
Offline
Dedicated Member

Joined: Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:06 am
Posts: 596
Location: Gothenburg, Sweden
Rapport is the feeling of "being at the same wavelength", as if you understand each other and connect deeper than normal. It has nothing to do with sexuality. It is just a social thing. You can build rapport by synchronizing your body language, tonality and how fast you talk with the girl. Use the same kind of words and expressions like her, and she will feel that you understand her better. It takes time to build rapport, so it can never come first.

Attraction is something sexual. In the context of pickup, attraction always come first. The girl needs to think you are an attractive guy long before you even speak to her. However, in contrast to other theories, I think attraction is something you need to maintain throughout the entire interaction with the girl.

The word "connection" is probably just confusing here. I would rather use "comfort" or "relationship". "Connection" can be a combination of "rapport" and "relationship".

Pickup goes like this:

Attraction -> Build rapport, create comfort and a relationship (get to know each other) -> Seduction


Top
   
PostPosted: Tue Oct 22, 2013 7:32 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Thu Mar 14, 2013 3:51 pm
Posts: 31
Quote:
Rapport is the feeling of "being at the same wavelength", as if you understand each other and connect deeper than normal. It has nothing to do with sexuality. It is just a social thing. You can build rapport by synchronizing your body language, tonality and how fast you talk with the girl. Use the same kind of words and expressions like her, and she will feel that you understand her better. It takes time to build rapport, so it can never come first.

Attraction is something sexual. In the context of pickup, attraction always come first. The girl needs to think you are an attractive guy long before you even speak to her. However, in contrast to other theories, I think attraction is something you need to maintain throughout the entire interaction with the girl.

The word "connection" is probably just confusing here. I would rather use "comfort" or "relationship". "Connection" can be a combination of "rapport" and "relationship".

Pickup goes like this:

Attraction -> Build rapport, create comfort and a relationship (get to know each other) -> Seduction

And which DVD product can teach this best?


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 3 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link