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PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 7:13 am 
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Every time I am working a set, some random guy just comes up to me to give me a high five or to give me alcohol or something...

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 8:43 am 
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They probably want to get introduced to the set.
I usually get bombarded with beta guys around me sticking to the girls I'm with like glue.
Just be casual and talk to them for 1-3 minutes to get to know them more.

If they keep interfering while you are talking to a girl, just ignore them as if you didn't hear them and continue gaming her, they'll know that they have to leave.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 2:12 pm 
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They probably want to get introduced to the set.
I usually get bombarded with beta guys around me sticking to the girls I'm with like glue.
Just be casual and talk to them for 1-3 minutes to get to know them more.

If they keep interfering while you are talking to a girl, just ignore them as if you didn't hear them and continue gaming her, they'll know that they have to leave.
Talking to them for a minute seems counterproductive...doesn't it. I am trying to seduce and keep the momentum going..

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 2:15 pm 
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Use better body positioning so that this doesn't happen as often. Dealing with the AMOG is one of the hardest things to do, but if it happens very often, I suspect body positioning etc. is your problem. Make sure you block off access to the girl as much as possible and also be closer to her/more physical. Could be you are just not escalating physically enough so it looks like she isn't interested or you are just friends.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 2:17 pm 
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Every time I am working a set, some random guy just comes up to me to give me a high five or to give me alcohol or something...
Don't even acknowledge the guy. Put on the "horse blinders" and pretend he doesn't even exist.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 21, 2013 5:35 pm 
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Every time I am working a set, some random guy just comes up to me to give me a high five or to give me alcohol or something...
Don't even acknowledge the guy. Put on the "horse blinders" and pretend he doesn't even exist.
This ^^^^.

There is no rule which says you have to acknowledge anyone entering the set that YOU opened.

The only exception is if you're running a big set and the situation feels like herding cats. Then you can pair the interloper off with either the alpha of the group or the one(s) who are mostly indifferent to your charms as they are the ones who can pull the target away from you.

If it's a one on one then you have to escalate quickly as very, very few guys will interject if you're at the kiss close stage.


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