So been talking to a girl who im pretty into however, she lives in another state. We went out a couple times on some dates when I initially met her 2 weeks ago visiting this other state, messed around alil bit and had a great time. Now I have been trying to get her to fly out here to visit me in a few weeks but I came on kinda strong and alittle to persistent so I can get the plane ticket in advance. The last time I heard from her was 4 days ago, we talked on the phone and she said she would check her schedule at work if she can take off and havent heard back since. We would text everyday and all, but since I havent heard from her I havent called nor text her and neither has she.
My question is should I send a re engaging text soon or wait a day or two, something funny or cocky to gain attraction, or a hook type text maybe? something to where I dont seem overly pressuring or desperate?

I thought about using this one, but not sure if it the right one or not..

#1. Havent heard from you in about a week so I decided to jump off my roof and kill myself... unfortunately I live in a tent so it didnt work out so well .. how are things?

Anybody else have some good ideas?

"I wanna ask you something that has kept me sleepless for nights and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might make things awkward between us after I ask you this but I have to know how you feel. I have had this question on my mind for a while now and I think it's time for me to just be straight up and confront you on it. I truly hope this doesn't ruin the relationship that we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on my part if I didn't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh your answer is. I just want your honest opinion.... Do you like coke or lemonade?"


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Works very well.

Also, try something like this...

"Seriously, (Insert girls name here). This shit needs to stop. The constant text messages... The late night phone calls. This is NOT how you get a man!"

hahaha awesome thanks, I love those two ideas.

The lemonade one works like a charm. Used it a couple times before and it never fails to get an answer.