Not trying to make any excuses here so don't take what I say the wrong way but the biggest issue that stops me from getting with girls is really the lack of opportunities to do so. I'm not even exaggerating when I say this.... I never get lucky and I always run into bad luck whenever I see even a glimpse of hope to get what I want done.

Here's my situation. I work full time and I go to school in community college. I can't date anybody at my job because the only girls I work with are either old people or the few girls that I know that are around my age (i'm 25 by the way) are already taken and have a kid already but they're just here to earn a living. I can't really date anyone at community college either because girls here are pretty anti-social and majority of the ones I try to get with are taken already. If they aren't, they just choose to focus on school so they can go into a university. I've also tried asking friends of mine (male to be exact because none of my close friends are female unfortunately) to introduce me to girls they know but I also got unlucky here because the ones I try to go to for help are either fakes/posers who really don't know any girls and are in the same situation as me or they're too greedy and they want to keep all the connections they have to girls for themselves. I've also tried going to bars/clubs and no luck there either because a majority of the time I get blown off or ignored or they talk to me a little bit but they walk away shortly after. I wish I was kidding but them ignoring me and my friend or blowing both of us off and not saying much to us is exactly what happened last Friday when we went out to the bars and clubs with the intention of trying to talk to some girls and seeing what happens from there.

So really.... I don't know what to do at all and it seems like my situation is in a huge dead end. I'm not trying to sound desperate here but I really want to find a solution to make my situation better as fast as possible. It's itching me inside that I have no idea how to move forward with this and what the next step I should take here because I really want to know what to do next. It would be great if it was possible to improve my situation as quick as this Friday if I end up going out that night.

So, what would you guys do next if you were me?

Personally, if I'm not living life as I want, I'd work my best to move to another place.
But if that doesn't suit, you're probably not playing your game right.
The less people, the less the competition. And if you display your alpha male traits in such a low population, it's pretty obvious that you'll get all the attention and start getting laid easily.

That's just my opinion though.

Personally, a community college seems like straight gold to me - you're way less of an outsider to a group than you are at a club. I WISH I had started with game back in college.

Starbucks is good, clubs are good - it sounds like you need more experience. You need to move faster at a club - if you don't fuck the girl that night, chances are she will not contact you again. Not to say it doesn't happen (I fucked and went out with quite a hot one from a club like 6 months ago), but it's rarer.

So basically what you're saying is I just have to go for broke in a club and risk it all? correct?

This is full of excuses bro. Who cares if you get blown out? Who cares if you get ignored? You aren't doing something right. Quit blaming external factors and start taking responsibility.

I can see why you think I was making excuses but I really wasn't trying to do that. I really was just telling you guys about my situation and what is going on with me right now in regards to why I can't get this done. So yeah all I really was trying to do was tell what happened so that I can give you guys an idea on what kind of advice you can possibly give me in order to move forward with this and (hopefully) start seeing some results as fast as possible.

Anyway all me and my friend did in that club or bar was casually say "hello" to any girl we saw that we find attractive. Sadly.... as I said before, that didn't work out very well because the club we were at seemed very cliquey and girls there only seemed interested in talking to their friends and they seemed to show no interest in talking to guys they don't know. I can always try next week again but I have no idea at all what to expect since clubbing and bar hopping hasn't really gone well for me the past couple of years.

I'm trying to take responsibility here by trying to ask for advice and figure out a solution to this problem and see what you guys would do next if you were me.

So I went clubbing tonight with some friends and I got the same exact results that I predicted i'd get

It looks like my only hope is to go to the clubs/bars with female friends that I already know outside of the club but the tricky part is.... I don't have any. I kid you not when I say this.... all my friends are dudes....

I'm considering giving up on clubbing for a little while since it's not working out. So if you were me, what would you do to improve this situation?