So I fucked stinky vag again (the smell was MUCH more manageable/reasonable this time, so that was a positive).

However, after my first time coming, my sexual performance was pretty low. Maybe it was lack of sleep, or something, but I was just having trouble getting turned on and staying erect. I don't believe she got off - I tried eating her out, but she doesn't seem to care much for it. It's very hard to find out what turns her on - she's always like, "Figure it out", which obviously doesn't lead to me pleasuring her as best I could.

I stayed the night, though we didn't sleep really. We mostly just cuddled, fooled around, occasionally half fucked.

It was kinda boyfriend frame-y, which I don't care too much about - though I worry about poor sexual performance possibly screwing up future situations with this girl - who is at this point, the hottest one I've fucked (I've broken that record three times in the past year though, so it's very possible I will fuck a hotter girl after her).

Should I say anything? Just try to hang out again? Any advice?

She just broke up with her chubby Chaldean hipster ex of three years, and she keeps going on about how my body is hot, so so far all that's going good.

First time I banged my current gf (the one who has NEVER had an orgasm though, which might change things a bit) I came in like 30 seconds. Needless to say that was bad.

Here I am 1 year, 3 months into this relationship and she still jumps me for sex constantly and saying what a great sexual relationship we have


I think a woman's past has alot to do with how you are perceived in bed...aka if her previous boyfriends sucked (like my gf's did, because they were 16-19 years old and told her when she came, when she really didn't LOL), you look normal or good and she'll stick around even if the sex is just meh by your standards. Everything is relative.


my chick is the same way by the way! she has no idea what pleases her so that "figure it out" line rings true.

it's still way too early in the game (2nd time you've slept with her) to really worry about your performance.

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Well, this girl says she has slept with "around" 7 sex partners (and claims I am the first time she's put out on a first date - seems genuine), but she's screwed around with 15-20.

At least one was the three year hipster ex, another was his bff as a quick hook-up about a few weeks after the break up. My impression, based on her behavior is that I'm the first guy since the bff. She told like four of her friends about my and her hook-up.

If she gets flakey I'll just paint a mental picture of me eating her out to orgasm, I think.

They are all virgins unless I've hit it, so most likely you're good to go.

... Right.

Smelly vag... Dodge that, nothing more a turn off than that.

Highly doubt she will get flakey. With 7 partners you think every experience was good? Hell no.

Her vag wasn't very smelly last night.

It was within tolerance limits.


7 sounds about the difference between experienced and not experienced-ish.

Admittedly, I've slept with plenty more (25+?)

Man, the vaj probably won't smell that bad all the time. It changes throughout their cycle.

Also, in rare cases, this happens:, if a girl skips the sugar pills and goes from week 3 to week 1 of her BC ( they can do this to avoid menstruating), if she continues through 2 full months without ever taking the sugar pills, or just stopping BC for a week, it will cause some girls shit to smell rank as fuck.

Pikeman85, if I have sex with a girl with a stinky vagina, I do NOT want to do it more, after I cum. I hate this thing - I can't stand when it's stinky!!!

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Didn't read the thread carefully, just scrolled down.

Anyway, I don't have any advice on how to mend things, I just want to say this (and I know I've said it before): learn oral and finger techniques. You may be off, but you can always use your fingers, wich are more than enough to give a girl an orgasm, with the right technique.