Hey, new guy here looking to improve my game, get rid of AFC traits.

I met this hot chick. She lived near me for years but we haven't met before. She is 18, I am 26.
Long story short: she added me on facebook the next day, asked me If I want to go jogging with her, I said ok but when the autumn starts, then I told her that she can stop by my house on the way sometimes. She was very into me, always texted me first, during the night also, even after I said that I'm going to bed.

So she did stop by, twice, the second time we had good long crazy sex all over the house. She practically threw herself on my bed, even though in our three encounters we only talked in person for less than two hours all together. She texted me on FB the next morning, which I thought is a good sign. In the evening she went to the seaside for a week and then we have lost contact for a while. Anyways, now we are back in touch and I want to bed her again.

But I got a feeling it is not going to be as easy as in the beginning when I was acting naturally, no particular gaming.
I'm getting mixed signals. She no longer texts me, but she does says hi on FB chat. When I asked her once if she wants to go jogging she said she won't be home yet by then (genuine I guess). Then she asks me If I will come to the local bar in the evening, I sad I can't cause 'I'm goin to the club. Then 5 days later I hit her up on fb chat, we set up a meet for a drink after her school, but she flaked half an hour before, said she has to go to town to take care of some things. Don't know if this was the truth or not. And then we agreed we should reschedule and added winks and stuff. She also replies to my texts 99% of the time in 1 or 2 minutes.

I have made some AFC mistakes during that night we had sex:

- there is one girl, also neighbour, half-cousin of her which she knows I am in contact with. When we started to make out, she asked If I did the same thing with her half-cousin. And I said no, and that she is hotter.
- when she got back from the seaside, she somehow disappeared, but I later found out she wasn't allowed to use facebook and her phone broke. But stupid me sent her text telling her we should go jogging, and then the next day I sent her message on facebook asking her everything is ok.
- and I also made a stupid comment about how I am going to hook up with my hand during the time she is on vacation, damn.

So yesterday after 20 days of no contact I gave her a spontaneous call, said that I was out in a restaurant and something reminded me of her (some chocolate we ate before sex) and wanted to say hi. We bantered for 2 minutes (about porn), I ended it on a high note. Felt pretty good, she giggled and stuff...

What do you think? How should i play it? I should now wait for her to initiate contact right?

thanks

Seems like she is hanging out with her ex boyfriend again. I knew they were still in touch though, so I'm not sure if anything is going on. Will see....

If her ex is not satisfying her enough, she'll re-initiate contact with you as soon as possible.
Just game other girls while ignoring her for a week or so, and see how she reacts.

lots of times I read advice: ignore for a week or two and see what happens.

But what if she doesn't contact you, how do you know when is the time to ignore her until she contacts you, even if it takes 3 months, or try a little harder and reinitiate again after waiting a week or two?

Game other girls. You are getting way too needy with this one here.

As for what you should have done, when she RESCHEDULED that was the time to strike to solidify anything. When a girl says she can't come out with you but reschedules that is genuine interest. Anyway, what you should do from here on out is to leave it for a little while, game other girls, and then hit her up again in the future casually and tell her to come over to see your new goldfish.

true I am getting needy, I finally had a chance to have a neighbour as a booty call, and her nice body totally hooked me...

she didn't proposed to reschedule. actually I said "no problem, I am tight on schedule anyways, some other time maybe then ", and she replied "of course ". That was it, then followed no contact for 20 days.

haha gold fish, yeah I'm gonna back off. I think that ex boyfriend is the reason for going from massive contact to almost no contact so fast.