Hi!, first of all, Im writing here for first time, I´m from Spain, so you´re gonna have to excuse my english xD I´ve read you a lot and now I definitely need your help...

There are a couple of girls in my classroom (university) giving me IOI´s, but i´m gonna focus just on one (the ugly one LOL (In my opinion is objectively a 6.5-7 but I´m afraid I have some kind of oneitis with this girl...)).
The point is that after a burst of IOI´s, concentrated in aproximately two weeks, the IOI´S have stopped! I mean, I know I look like an authentical beta acting this way (don´t taking the advantage of those IOI´s she sent me if I like her ...) but, sometimes we don´t realize the importance of the situation, or the importance of acting quickly...

Today, two weeks after the "heart" of this IOI´s avalanche, I´ve coincided with her at the beginning of an exam.
First, waiting out of the classroom (where she didn´t look at me at all...) and after inside the classroom where I´ve been seated relatively close to her... I´ve looked at her with a devastating body language, she has looked at me for mmm 3 second and she has look ahead again doing a pigtail (ponytail) with the minimum interest...

The point is that I have not talked to her yet, and a friend who understand about game and social dynamics, has said me: "Stop caring about the details and talk to her once and for all...".

The question is: Is it too late? Can I go and take the advantage of these IOI´s? or it´s gonna be difficult, and i´m going to have to win her attention again?

I think relevant to say that in my college I have an high value, and I have a very crafted body language, I´ve never moved away the eyes whe she has looked at me and all this kind of things...

The other girl who has just started to giving me IOI´S (I have talked to her, in this case) and is under my personal point of view a nine, a stunning blondy, buuuuut... oneitis rules...

pd: Opinions like: go to the blonde one are not accepted xD

Thanks a lot!!!

I'm with your friend, have some balls. Don't worry about IOI's - they can be misleading anyway. It's all about learning and improving. Just go and talk to her man, and ask her if she'd like to go for a drink or something. If she rejects you (and she probably will, because you'll be scared and will probably say the wrong things!) then well, who cares! What have you lost?

Yep, I´m going to try it, there´s no doubt, I don´t have anything to lose.
Actually I think she´s not going to literally reject me, I´m not a shy guy, I find so easy starting a talk with someone, and I think I shouldn´t go and ask her out, just talk a little and follow the principle that " The more subtle the movement is, the more subtle the reaction will be (or the rejection) " xD

The last thing I want is to look like a dumb, but I think I have much more social value than she has, so the rejection is not going to be humiliating, it´s gonna give her self-satisfaction...
What I don´t know is if I have lost a lot of value whit this non-talking thing...

If I had spoken to her two weeks ago my chances of success would be like 80% NO DOUBT... now, maybe she doesn´t see any value on me... that´s the point friends...

See - then that just tells me you're fighting with your own ego. You might think she won't reject you because you're an amazing catch in your own eyes - so when she rejects you your opinion of YOURSELF will change. Because you think this girl is ugly. And if an ugly girl turns you down, then what does that say about you?

If that's what's holding you back then so be it. But don't think too harshly of yourself if she does reject you. You're just learning a new skill, and it's probably going to happen quite often unless you're a natural. So just go for it and then see what happens.

The question I have for you: why don't you just find out?

Honestly, if this has been going on for WEEKS now, she might not even be interested in you anymore. She might see you as a pussy who is too afraid to make a move. The window of opportunity opens and closes pretty quickly man. For next time, when you see an opportunity, jump at it.

Yes, I think the same, anyway I´m gonna talk to her as soon as I can, I just coincide with her in a couple of classes, Wednesday and Thursday... so tomorrow I´m going to approach her and just see the situation, I´m totally convinced that if she is not currently interested in my, she can be in a future with a little of game and kino escalation xD.

Hey guys,I got news... I´ve talked to her, and she is... the most rude girl I´ve talked to...
It has been totally impressive... I´ve asked her the time of the next exam, she was seated, I´ve asked from behind, standed up, it has been something like:

Me: Hey (touching her shoulder), u know what time is the exam?
She: (Staring her stuff in the table, without looking at me at all, I have not seen her face in all the conver...) At 10:30 (in low voice, inaudible)
Me: (to my friend) 12:30
She: 10:30 (louder)
Me: 10:30? ok, fuck it! I have another class...

She just standed up and go to talk with the professor...

This is so so weird men... a friend talk to her some days ago and she was very kind with him...
Today she has been looking at me again, and also she has seated in the next seat I was... when the class is over I go, and I find all this...

A friend says that she is shy to talk to me, and she was like nervous or this things... I don´t know, but i think that in a way or another it´s gonna be so difficult to escalate with her, so maybe is better to leave it aside, it´s all up to her, if she wants to come and talk friendly with me great, if not... there are so may girls in the city...