Ok, so I kind of have this thing going with this girl, I really like her and she likes me too, we're not really BF and GF or whatever. Anyhow, she's had this annoying habit of not texting me first and taking awhile to reply to my texts. Well I decided to change that and I didn't text her for a couple of days, and sure enough she texted me first, I was like ok, this is a start, so anyhow while I was texting her I was already pretty irritated by the fact that she hadn't texted me or talked to me in awhile so whatever. This is what she texts, she starts with "hey babe", and a few minutes later I say hey back, a minute later she texts "I miss you", I text back "Aww, ain't that sweet", so this is where I think I fucked up, because she texts back "do u not miss me?", I text back "of course, that goes without saying." Needless to say, I think she's pissed at me, because she has not texted back lol. Where did I fuck up? I'm a noob at the text game, so bear with me. Also, keep in mind I'm trying to form a relationship, not just get in her pants, I've done that already.

Bueller, bueller, bueller?

The problem here is, you're too easy for her. The reason she texted you back in the first place is because she suddenly thought you were doing other things, maybe with other girls - got her stewed.

So she texts you. And wants you to reaffirm that she could still have you if she wants to. Which she can.

"I miss you"
"Aww, ain't that sweet" < great response. Alpha, interesting, keeps her hooked.
"do u not miss me?" < Shit test.
"of course" < Weak response. You're not a challenge.

You did fuck up. You're not a challenge to her. She was just proving to herself she was still in charge, that she could have you if she wanted you. And because she can, you're not worth her time.

If you want to be in a relationship with this sort of girl you have to have some sort of mystery about you, something that keeps them hooked. You could have taken ages to respond, maybe, and then said something like "Why are you asking? Funnily enough I met this awesome girl the other day at a party that looked just like you! It was so weird."

And then just be the best when you do hook up. Like, learn what she likes, push her buttons, ask her kinky stuff man. Don't be boring. If you're boring, you're done. There're hundreds of boring guys in every single pretty girls life, and they can sleep with any one of them any time they like. You have to stand out from the crowd.

Harsh, but constructive. Also wouldn't I have risked pissing her off further if I went with the response you suggested?

There's not enough information here for anyone to be able to tell. It depends on the girl, your background with her, and whether you've done any playful teasing before. But to be honest, my general attitude is well - who cares. It's a learning process. There're millions of girls out there, what's so special about this one? Try something different, see what happens, and if it pisses her off, well, so what? You've learned something new. And if you've got a reaction out of her, then that's something different at least. If she's attractive, then she'll be used to men trying to please her all the time. She WON'T be used to men teasing her.

Hmm, good point. Do you mind if I pm you in the future for advice, I'm new to this lol.

Just put it on here, there's some really good advice to be had on this forum. I just have a look now and again.

From reading this, here's what I see you messed up when she said "do u not miss me?" which is a shit-test, and you failed by your response "of course, that goes without saying."

As HardToKill said, you made it too easy for her instead of a challenge.

I wouldn't say you messed up and all hope is lost. In fact, I get girls not talking to me for weeks and then reinitiate contacts and things are fine.

The question is now, how to proceed from here?

Wait. See if she texts you back in a few days, if she doesn't text her a week later just to say hi. Don't mention anything about what happened previously. Keep it casual, light-hearted, and fun.

If she doesn't reply back, use a bait in your text to draw here in for example, "Hey, I was reminded of you today." "I need to talk to you." and just say whatever no matter how mundane.

Something that would make her want to respond back to solve the mystery, and then proceed to go from there acting like things are the same.

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