Hello everyone My name is Darius and want you to please tell me what could be wrong with me...The problem began when I was in high school, I was socially awkward and was terrified of talking to a girl but out of all this i learned that desperation could be my best friend after all. Now I am 23 years old, can open sets, I am sociable, funny, good looking (at least that's what my male friends say) but the problem is I can't go for a kiss....a feel a sever anxiety when I gotta pull the trigger...I usually know how to kino escalate but not all the time where is this fear coming from....its definitely not approach anxiety because it gets horrible when I get very solid IOI's.

Have you kissed many girls? If not there's your problem. You are worried about whether or not it will be good. You just need to do it and let go of your own preconceptions. Face the fact you're inexperienced and realize the only way to gain experience it to practice. Which means you need to kiss more.

No i never ever kissed a girl that is one big problem. I have the gun , i see the bird but I'm not shooting

Lol WTF bro....23 and never kissed a girl? Go tell some drunk skeezer you want to make out with her dude. 6's and 7's will literally make out with just about anybody who isn't fat and doesn't smell bad.

Easy sad than done. I'm not like that

From what you have described, this is definitely all in your head. It sounds like you're already getting the great feedback from the girl to move for the kiss with the IOIs you've been getting, yet not doing anything about. Definitely you're unsure what's going to happen and this is a common thing for guys with fear of rejection; they rather fail to initiate further than face getting rejected. Always ask yourself, "What's the worst that can happen?" Ok she deflects your kiss...and? That's the worst that can happen, but then you can always try again later.

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