I met a hb9 at a bar couple months ago,while number closing, a girl I used to date n haven't see in while showed up said hi then sat on my lap n starts dry humping me, hb9 got up n went to the other side of the bar, I didn't follow her I stayed to talk to the other girl for about 10 minutes, when I went back to try to talk to the hb9 she said she was leaving to meet some guy; I knew I didn't had a change anymore so I didn't call her. couple weeks after, I saw her at a party, turned out one she just moved back to town about a month before i met her and was best friends with one of my good female friends; since we had a mutual friend i saw her couple more times, I started texting her trying to do damage control, the usual funny jokes . one day I text her i was still attracted to her, she text back saying she only like as a friend now and that she had a boyfriend now, i text her "BS u still like me that's the reason u still talking to me n if this is not going anywhere i'm not gonna text u anymore" she text "well I'm not letting u go" i didn't text back, i saw her couple days after we didn't talked about the last conversation, we just hanged out as usual. i went out of town for 3 weeks , when i got back i went to the bar to meet our mutual friend she told me the hb9 n her boyfriend broke up n she was on a date, she showed up as i was leaving, hb9 asked me to stay a little longer, i didn't. the next day i text her saying i didn't want to b the third wheel on her date, she said he was just a friend n it wasn't a date; we made plans to meet the next Friday, she text me that day saying n she wasn't gonna make it, but we should try another day, i text her no problem im still going out. next day she calls me n tells me to meet her at the bar i went there we hang out, but i was really exhausted , i wasn't my usual that day, so i didn't really made a move cause i wasn't feeling it. we made plans to meet the Wednesday after, she text me that day she wasn't gonna make it. i text her no problem, our mutual friend was at the bar so i hang out with her that nite. this is our conversation next day
me: hey you miss a great time last nite, your lost.
hb9: i know i wish i could had made it.
me: btw i cheated on u with xxx we dance to that song u n i always dance
hb9: what?? im so gonna kick your ass!!!
me: alcohol was involved one thing led to another, it wont happen again i promised
hb9: how do i know it was a one time thing n u wont do it again?
me: I cant change the past, but i promised it wont happen again
after that she didn't reply, that was 3 days ago. in her defense i know shes busy, shes got a kid, works n goes to school. i never explained myself to her about the girl that showed up at the bar the nite we met. should i keep trying to meet with her? do i still have a change with this one? how long till i text her again or wait to see if she text me?
thank u for your time to read this, n your advice.