Hey, how do I work out how frigid a girl is, so I know how much kino and sexual tension to use? The last date I went on, I was with a 20 year old girl, same age as me, and I ended up blowing the date as I didnt do any kino as I wasnt getting any sort of sexual or flirty vibe from her. She was the type of girl who is more sophisticated, as in studies languages, dresses smart and she still lives at home with her parents even when at university. I know you can immediately spot some more sexually experienced girls you might date, by the clothes they wear. So my second question I want to know, if you are dating a more reserved and shy girl, how much kino and sexual escalation should you use?

Jumping to conclusions on what she wears is something you better rethink, some if the horniest girls i know dress super plain.

Anyway moving on, how do you tell how sexual? Easy, with smoooth and steady increase of escalation and kino. If she shys away, back off a few steps until she is comfortable again, then slowly build the tension again. You'll soon find her limit, if any.

You got a fundementally negative attitude, with seemingly little evidence you PRESUME this girl is frigit. That's negative, you should PRESUME she's horny. Always presume horniness until conclusively proved otherwise. Chicks want guys.

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Thanks, your right, I have been a bit ignorant in my views of women. What would be the first step of the ladder of escalation? The last date I went on with her, I didnt see any signs of interest in this department so it make me unconfident in trying them out. So what could I do that could test the water but also not be damaging if she only see's me as a friend?

Don't wait for permission to escalate, girls expect you to take the lead. Some people think you need IOIs before escalating but that's rubbish, you can get IOIs as a RESULT of escalating. If you want for random IOIs they may never come, show her you are confident, show her you are sexual, and the IOIs will follow.

Basically start with playful but firm eye contact, light touching followed by more light touching followed by light holds etc etc. Gamblers videos are good on that sought of stuff.

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But let me just add.. You've always got to shoot the ball if you want to score. If the dates about to end sour, go for the kiss just for the fuck of it. At least you stand a chance at taking this to the next level. But yea, clothing doesn't signify anything. And she wasn't giving you sexual vibes because you weren't giving her sexual vibes. Its the male/leader that sends the invitation not her. She's mirroring you...

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