1.
Is it possible or even common that girls can freak out over too much sexual escalation over text even though they like the guy really really much?
«we can go to you’re place afterwards »
«we can take a bath in the bathtub»
«you want to kiss me in real life instead of those smileys, I want to kiss you :*»


2.
Is it common that girls don’t dare or don’t want to initiate contact over text, even though they like the guy?


3.
If one asks a girl out of frustration if she likes you, and says that she freaked out due to #1
«It’s got nothing to do with you, I’ve freaked out every time since my last boyfriend»
«As of now, I only have feelings for you as a friend.»
"I like you, but not in that way, yet. I need more time to like someone much.»
"I've only met you one time in three years"

BS or she likes me but want to take it slow? Wouldn't she just say "I only like you as a friend, PERIOD" if she didn't like me?


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1. Yes it's possible they'll freak out. Over text there's no physical connection so no physical arousal. There's also no chance they can get carried away in the moment. The only thing there is time for is them to think for reasons NOT to agree to sex. If they did over text they'd just feel like a slut. Text confirmation is unnecessary anyway.

2. Yes it's common, I think it's just a traditional female viewpoint that a man should initiate contact. Although a phonecall would be better than a text.

3. Friendzoned, she doesn't like you. There are posts on here to give advice on how to escape the FZ but it isn't easy.

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Thanks:) Any feedback about this is nice.

I need to say I pressured her to tell me if she liked me or not.
I don't think she would have said it out of the blue.

I recently posted about four days later on facebook that I was in New York. She contacted me and said she was also there.
I've only met her once and that's when I made out with her, so it's strange she was letting me know she was there if she didn't like me at all. But she's afraid and freaked out due to my over-escalation over facebook maybe.

She also likes most of my statuses. I wrote I felt sexy yesterday. She liked that. Yeah.. I guess I got friendzoned, but I think she liked me when we met and we had great chemistry the first week after the meeting on facebook, but then I over-escalated and at the same time I wanted to meet up and watch a movie. She was busy and suddenly went cold.

1, yes, she would be frightened you, and if so bluntly, if she is a conservative girl will definitely scared.

2, in which the concept of girls, boys and girls should take the initiative, otherwise the girl will default you do not like her or do not care about her. Boys should be bold initiative to contact her.

3, which is the reason girls reject you, they do not want to hurt you directly, so you will find a variety of reason to refuse. In general, are said friends.

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A)Absolutely, if too direct when comfort is low, nothing more than expecting that.

B)Yes it it's. I mean, most of high value or high quality girls are very prideful, and they expect the guy to talk even if they want. But with tight game, you can turn the papers a bit.

C)Girls should never be asked about it, better, demonstrate it. If they like you, they'll show you. But, there are cases, and may be possible, that she was just testing your reaction. To see how you respond. To see if you freak out to, so don't make quick assumptions.

Why are you getting sexual through a text message? I know phones are pretty advanced these days... but I'm pretty sure there isn't an app that allows a girl to suck your dick through the phone. Use text messaging to meet up. That's it. Not to escalate sexually or build comfort.

No. She might just not like you.

Don't even ask her that. Just assume that she likes you.

Based off of your post here... I can only assume that you are relying way to heavily on approaching a girl just to get her phone number and working from there. Quit being a pussy and just going for the phone number... Go for the close dude.