Hey, so a bit of background, I met this girl where I volunteered at, I ended up getting her number and we met up, after only working with each other twice. We got on incredibly well at work, however the first date which was pool did not go well. I didnt do any kino, she looked at her phone for half the time, and the conversation was becoming drawn out towards the end. We then went our seperate ways and I texted her about 3 weeks later and it went well. She then moved to another country but facebooked me a couple of days ago and we ended up agreeing to meet up and play pool again when she returns in a few weeks time.

She has a ton of friends, and is friends with good looking guys but has no boyfriend. I am not a good looking guy, but I am quite witty. This leads me to think why does she want to hang out with me again? I have not demostrated much alpha qualities, the only things I can think of is that I have never appeared desperate and have always keep our text conversations short and sweet. I havent built any sexual tension either.

Do you think she just wants to meet up for something to do, or do you think she likes me for more than a friend? I know its hard to tell, but I seriously cant see anything than her wanting to be my friend unfortunately. And if she only wants to be my friend, when we do next meet should I attempt to build sexual tension etc. and try and improve my odds of her wanting more?

Of course. She was expecting more the 1st time. Don't let her down again, or you will end up as LJBF's or less.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

You already ruined your first chance.
You still have your second date to prove her wrong.

Just go with the flow. Watch out for signals and act accordingly and you'll do fine

I have read other posts where people havent had a second chance when they have messed up, and from then on the women only want to hang out as friends. Do you think this might be the case. She initiated conversation on facebook, but I suggested we hang out again and she said yes and that we should play pool again.

If I do get a second chance, im going to do everything in my power for it to be a sucess. I just hope it isnt too late.