I went out with this girl, f closed first date. Went out 2 more times since, f closed both times but the last one we stopped early...I couldn't get it fully hard cuz i was pretty drunk. Now I tried to invite her out for drinks this friday and she said she could go out that night but just as friends. I replied, "yep that's cool" after a couple more texts about something irrelevant she said "oh and I mean just friends, not FWB, no sex". Again I acted indifferent and said "not a problem, things were moving kinda fast anyway".

I'm pretty sure she's still talking to her ex so I'm thinking that's why she's gone cold but i also may have been too sexual with her without building enough comfort. I'm talking to a few different girls right now so its not one-itis by any means but still would like to have sex with her again. Should I still go with her friday and try to f close? Or not go at all? How should I treat this situation?

Probably a shit test

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Your answer was cool OG but you've got to get better in the bedroom. Play it cool, have the drinks, and she's still going to fuck you. Just make sure you really fuck her this time.

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You probably acted needy when you couldn't get it up. Sounds like you want something from her. WHy care about fucking her again if you can fuck other girls?

Go out out. Turn her on. Then don't give it to her. don't give her no dick, make her earn it.

The first few times I fucked her I fucked her good - lasted a long time, she even said "you're too much for me". Also much larger than average which is a plus.

Anyway I may have acted a little needy (not in the traditional sense aka I need to be with you but instead in the sense that I need your pussy lol). One thing that seemed strange was when setting up the date I was getting sexual in texting and she said "what if I told you I didn't wanna bang when we go out". I treated it as a shit test and responded in a non needy way. I was thinking she thought I just wanted her for her body but now I'm thinking she has other issues - her ex.

So you're saying I should go out with her, escalate as usual then when she's all hot and ready to bang and tries to pull out my dick I stop and say something like "maybe we shouldn't do this tonight"? Or what would I say? I've never turned a girl down for sex before lol