Last week when I hung out with the girl I’ve been talking to for her sister’s b-day, she sent me a text later that night after I went home about what her sisters thought of me.

She said, “My sisters like u lol,” then her next text was, “Love would b the right word.”

The next day when I had her on the phone I asked her again, “So I made a good impression with your fam bam?” She told me that her sister whose birthday it was really liked me because I was “there.”

She was basically telling me that her sister liked me because I was PRESENT.

Living in the moment.

How often are we really living in the moment? Even when we’re doing something our minds are completely somewhere else.

Am I right?

Exactly.

One thing I noticed when I’m on dates is that I’m constantly flirting and goofing off with my date… another thing I do is make her feel like she’s the only girl in the room even though there’s loud music people standing next to us and a million other things that are going on.

I get super goofy with my girlfriends but never really with girls I’m just going on a date with… that’s a different type of humor I guess.

The “challenge” I want to talk about today is keeping that PRESENT MOMENT going every time you and your date/girl hang out.

How will she react?

How will she respond to your flirting every day?

Will she enjoy it?

Will she look at you weird or will she be totally into it and brag to her friends about how you only pay attention to her and only her when out?

Will you build a stronger connection because you’re so present every time you hang out?

Not only am I challenging myself to do this, but I’m asking YOU to do this every time you go on a date or hang out with a chick that you’re into.

I will keep updates of everything that happens with this as I go…

This should be interesting to see what happens because now that I’m looking for something more than just a “date” or “hookup” this could get intense.


Stay up you handsome bastards,


-Jarod

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