Most woman have caught on to the "negging" tactics that used to work in the past.
Recently, I did a video tutorial about "negs" where I discussed a new variation which has been working really well.
To really test it out, I decided to try the technique on a very difficult target - a celebrity via FB.
Anyone who follows a hot female celebrity on FB knows that every post they make gets tons of responses. Most of them are guys acting like sycophants and validating every post with brown-nose comments.
Sometimes a guy will try a primitive neg, but that usually gets him blocked, deleted, or the wrath of all the sycophant fans.
Either way, the celebrity almost never responds to individual posts. However, my "neg" worked so well that I not only got a "like" from her...I got a private message and subsequent conversation that will result in a future meeting when she gets back in town. (For the purposes of this post, I'll just stick to the initial "neg" technique - not the the rapport building and flirting also required.)
Here is a synopsis of what happened:
1. The celebrity posted 3 pics of potential Halloween costumes to wear. She asked her FB fans to comment on which one she should wear.
2. Tons of guys commented by choosing one of the three.
3. Some guys did the typical brown-nose comment "You would look great in any of the them" .
4. Some guys tried primitive negs such as "You need D-Cups to wear any of those".
5. She responded to NONE of the 200+ of comments received.
On the surface, it seemed like I would have no chance of fairing any better if I commented, but I tried the new technique.
It's best if you watch the video (PM me if you want a link or just go to the Free Video section on our Optimacy website), so that you understand the psychology behind it. However, it basically involves a two-prong approach.
1. Neg from AUTHORITY
2. Combine the neg with a slight or subliminal compliment
Because I have a clothing line as one of my side businesses, I know a lot about fashion and have
authority to comment on her post. Strategically, this was an ideal post to comment on, so I did the following:
I attached a picture of a totally different costume in my comment and wrote the following:
"I have a clothing line and connections with Melrose Ave boutiques. I think this costume is more couture and appropriate for someone with celebrity status. It includes LED purple lights on the cage bra. I would get it before Nicki Minaj does, so just PM me if interested in more pics/pricing/etc."
I immediately got a "like" and also a private message saying...
"Hi! I love it. Very beautiful! The reason I posted the pics I did is bc that company gives me a costume for free in exchange for promoting since I have a large fan base."
Her first private message may not seem like much, but read it again and realize that the celebrity is now validating herself to ME!
The goal of a "neg" is already accomplished.
It got even better though. My next line was...
"Thanks...Your deal seems pretty sweet, so it will probably be best to stick with those. Unfortunately, the one I showed you is one-of-a-kind and fairly pricey."
She responded with...
"I'm pretty sure
. It looks very high end. I'm mini status not big timmer status lol." (She also can't spell - lol)
I'll stop here because the rest of the conversation transitioned from away from negging, since I now had her NEGGING HERSELF, using emoticons, and "lols".
Again, you don't have to have a clothing line to accomplish this. I mention a totally different example in the video that almost anyone can do. The key is establishing AUTHORITY before the neg and also couching it within a subliminal or light compliment to avoid coming off as the typical PUA neg.
In this example, I established authority as a fashion expert and then indirectly "negged" her choices in costumes by presenting a much better alternative. I also subliminally complimented her by putting her on par with Nicki Minaj.
Remember, your skills in rapport building, flirting, etc. still need to be top notch to take this farther, but it gives you a great foundation to start. Hope it helps.
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