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My guess is no, but... I've been out with this chick once, and we have mutual friends. The girl has flaked on me a few times and never replied to my last text... my friend says she's just busy and maybe I should call just to talk.
So, figured I'd ask the experts.
"The girl has flaked on me a FEW times and hasn't replied my last text" Which part of she is not interested did you not get?
Nothing, that's actually what I told my friend... then he insisted I should just be patient.
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"Too busy"? Did you set up a few dates and she was a no show or cancelled last minute? Out of principal and for self-respect if a girl flakes on me more than once on a date she is not worth my trouble not even if she begs forgiveness.
She claimed to be sick the times she cancelled, but in general it's been difficult even planning a meet since she's busy or has stuff going wrong all the time. I've kind of given her the benefit of the doubt on being sick, especially since she's contacted me (texts/facebook) a few times.
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In terms of calls though, I always like to make direct calls, from my POV it shows you are ballsy and don't shy away from calling. But I would call just to set up or flesh out details on date already agreed upon and to fix the details, not for pillow talk.
OK that's pretty much what I thought. Just wanted to confirm... my friend who recommended calling is not a PUA but does have more experience with women than I do, so I guess I doubted myself for a second.