Ah, so I went out to have a couple of drinks with a girl buddy of mine today at her workplace. It was a set of 3 and I handled it perfectly. I only dropped the ball a little with the waitress who is friends with my girl-buddy. She was giving me shit tests and I knew she was attracted, but I kind of stumbled a bit and it was over. The shit test was "where is your girlfriend". I should have said I haven't found the right one yet or I haven't found my soulmate. Something silly, you guys know what I am trying to get at. Instead I gave her a logical answer. I fortunately wasn't affected by the good looking girls surrounding me. The waitress was a solid HB 9. The girls I were talking to ranged from 7HB to 8.


Do you guys have any tips on how to handle hard shit tests or does it get easier over time? I wasn't too down on myself after I realized that I was sucked into her frame, but it was a little disappointing. I don't have much experience with very attractive girls yet so I was focusing on her beauty a bit. I am use to cute girls, though. 8 is my usual.

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Stay hungry, stay foolish- Jobs

A shit test is basically a girl testing your self-worth, so if you learn to have a high opinion of yourself you'll pass every shit test easily.

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^^^^ That.

If you freeze a lot when you are tested, just have a couple evasive answers ready. Just remember your answer should raise your value. I have a few I use and generally work. When tested about previous/current/lack of relationships I just give an half smile, roll my eyes like I'm remembering the time of my life and answer "that is a long story", or "that is a story for another time". If the question is specific, like "didn't you and +particularly hot girl+ had a thing?" say something like "I don't kiss and tell". If it's something sexual, roll with it, if you can't, say "don't make a question if you don't want to know the answer", or my personal favourite "the first rule of the fight club: never talk about the fight club".

Make up a few of your own that may be applied to a wide range of situations and you will do fine.

Remember, when you are being shit-tested, you should act like a politician in office: you don't need to know shit about what you are talking about, just talk like you rule!!!

Here's a couple I use:

"Which one?"

"She's at MMA practice, be careful she will whip your ass if she finds out you are flirting with me"

"She's probably at home cooking for her husband, btw how is ur dad doing?"

"I only date 18 year olds, so they can't come out to the bars with me."

"parking lot, I let her drive me to the bar, but I make her wait outside until I'm ready to leave."

"she's in the hospital.....asshole"