Okay here's a breakdown of my situation. I can say "hello" to girls no problem and I can ask them "how are you" or "hows your night going" alright enough. The problem is I have no idea how to carry a conversation with a girl that I find attractive from there.

I probably sound boring when I talk to them like this is a job interview but that is all I really know how to do....

I want to know the best ways I can talk to them and make myself interesting to them. I want to know how I flirt with them, the right things to say so I can hopefully leave the bar with them for some action, and overall make myself appealing to them.

If you guys can provide a sample conversation to give me ideas on what to say will be awesome. I'm going to go out this Friday night so I can use all the help and advice I can get. Thanks in advance!

To be honest these conversations are just casual and used on people who you pass by on the street, not girls.

You don't have to be serious and overthinking this stuff, just comment on anything in the place...be unique. I've seen tons of guys approaching with these openers "Hi, my name is X, can I buy you a drink?" and getting flaked in less than 2 minutes of talking.

Just go in, smile, say "Hi", comment on anything she's wearing or make a simple joke that would make her laugh and run some decent routines to attract her. That's just my method though, and it works well for me.

What are examples of routines you ran to attract girls?

I really don't know much so examples of what you would do would help a lot

Read some material, this is all well published fundamental stuff, no need to post generic catch all questions in this forum.

Just talk about anything. Stop thinking so hard about it...

It's really unique for everyone. For example, I'm the type of guy who jokes around A LOT. Jokes just come out of me and I know how to use them to my advantage in order to escalate. The problem with girls at bars is that they love attention and talking to the guy who makes them shine as the best group in the place.

Be crazy. Now for me, just an example, I sit near the girl and order her a glass of water. If she wonders why I'll just tell her alcohol is too mainstream here, so I bought you this cup of water to enjoy with me. Then I start throwing in some random jokes about how I once got really wasted on my 17th birthday and kissed a mother with 3 children and stuff.

It all depends on what I did in my life, because I've done some seriously crazy shit.
And no, I never lie. You can use lies in your jokes for your own advantage in making jokes, but don't lie to her in order to seduce her. Make up funny stories that's ok.

Good luck, hope it helped

Okay I have been trying to chat up with some girls the past few days and I notice the same problem is still there. The problem is.... I can say "hi" to a girl no problem and I can ask her "how is your day going" while talking to a girl. Past that part of the conversation though.... I have no clue what to say and the conversation dies from there. A lot of girls seem to want you to do most of the talking and i'm really not that good at that because I have no idea how to have a lengthy conversation with a girl if she doesn't say anything to me after I ask how her day is going which is what happens more times than I want it to. I have jokes in me and my friends say i'm funny but sometimes i'm afraid to be funny and make some jokes with girls I don't know too well because she might not find it funny or she might get offended by the jokes I make and i'm not all that used to talking to girls much since a big problem I have is that all my friends that I hang out with are guys and none of them are girls. I want that to change though because I want to get to know more girls.

So what would you guys advise for me to have lengthier and more interesting conversations with girls that I am interested in? More examples of conversations you guys would have with girls would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance for all the help guys.