HEADS UP! Your brain need a REWIRE and this is how ya gonna do it! Are you LISTENING!! Read this and read it well, you wanna get LAID do ya punk?? You really wanna laid? Are you sure about that, are you MAN enough!!!! Here's the program and PAY ATTENTION!

Step 1: Use your BALLS.......... You must swing those motherfuckers around like a MAN, you don't have any other option, if you want to win at anything you need BALLS and PUA is no different. Dudes join the community and go nowhere, not because they don't know the tricks or routines, not because they are not approaching, the reason they go nowhere is because they are fucking pussies and no BALLS! You have balls, but you're not USING them! If you want to succeed get them out right now, yes right NOW, or you're just wasting your time. Get used to this idea, USE YOUR BALLS!!!

Step 2: Always be escalating, always be escalating............ You talking to some babe in a club, escalate, you taking to your sisters friend, escalate, you talking to the Maccas drive thru chick, damn straight FUCKING ESCALATE! Always be escalating, if you're talking to a girl for 10 seconds or 10 minutes doesn't matter, always be walking down escalation street. Awkward pause, escalate, conversation getting boring, escalate, she says she has a boyfriend, escalate, JUST FUCKING ESCALATE!!! If you don't know how to escalate watch some of Gambler's escalation videos they are pretty much spot on. Yes watch them now!!! GOT THAT!!!

Step 3: Say this to yourself, "I won't leave a set, until I go direct"................ SAY IT!!! Said it yet? Good. Now say it 100 times, yes you heard me maggot, say "I won't leave a set, until I go direct." Say it and MEAN it!!! If you're not saying it over and over and over then fuck off to the Care Bears forum. Say it to yourself "I will not leave a set, until I go direct". SAY IT!!! Say it 100 times, 100 times yes 100 fucking times RIGHT NOW!! "I will not leave a set, until I go direct!!!" SAY IT!!!

Step 4: Re-read Step 1 to 3, tattoo those steps on your brain. GOT IT!! Remember, use your BALLS, always be ESCALATING, and don't leave until you've gone DIRECT! Got that! Think you can remember it all, you gonna DO IT, yes you fucking are!! This is your bible now soldier!

Step 5: Get on some nice clothes and look smick, then go to a mall where there's lots of shops, go to each one and tell them you're looking for a present for your sister and don't know what to buy.

NOW GET OUT THERE AND KICK SOME FUCKING ASS!!!

The End, questions?

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I belive having balls means that you have to dare more??

Go direct means??

1) hi, i like you , give me your phone number
2) hi, i like you, i wanna fuck you
3) something else

I don't even think you'd need the "I like you" - though if you said it with dominant body language and eye contact, it'd probably be ok.

But yes, that.

This newbie challenge is all about mindset. The difference between a natural and an AFC isn't routines or opening a 100 girls a night, it's just mindset. Get newbies in a good mindset first is key, then they can fine tune things from there.

And yes be daring, have balls, if newbies can get it through their heads that PUA takes balls they're already halfway there. In psychology there's something called primacy, it roughly means the first thing you learn is the thing you're going to remember most. So if there's one thing I want newbie to remember more than anything is to have guts, try things, have balls.

When I say "don't leave a set until you go direct" is to get newbies to used to taking a punt. Newbies often can't tell when a chick is warm, so if they have an attitude of always putting it out there at SOME stage, they might be surprised who bites, and when they figure out who bites and who doesn't they'll quickly learn what they did right and what they did wrong.

Basically I'm trying to stop newbies from overthinking, so I'm deliberately fairly vague. Get them in the right mindset and let their natural player come out with experience.

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Yes. Very methodical. Makes a lot of sense. I like that primacy shit. I'll look deeper into it.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Yes dare more, take risks, push boundaries, that's how you progress.

When I say "don't leave a set until you've gone direct" I don't necessarily mean OPEN direct, just go direct at some stage of the interaction.

Try some of these direct lines...
- "you're hot, what are you doing today?"
- "you're hot, if I knew you a bit better I'd take you back to my place"
- "you got nice legs/boobs/butt, I like the rest too actually"

If you want to OPEN direct, say...
- "hey, you're hot, I'm xyz" and shake her hand
- "hey you're so gorgeous I just had to say hi"

But either way, always go direct at SOME stage. If you feel more comfortable opening direct, do that.

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