What's a good answer or reaction to "I dont give my number to random people"?
today someone told me this and I made a big mistake by saying "so to you I am a random person?"
is that bad? I think it makes me look needy, right? dammit i am an idiot.

What is a good response to that statement?
In general, when a girl shit tests you and you are really tempted to give a typical AFC response, how can you avoid that? I want to have a generic response prepared that works in almost every situation.

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

Well, from my experiences usually you need to have an opener, and from there you need to have transition. Just think of talking about something fun, make assumption, and have normal conversation, and then attraction. Tease her (be playfully, but not mean), make any fun stories whatever. Things will be easier then.

I don't know if you did on day game, or night game, but usually on day game, everything needs to slow down the tempo. Enjoy the conversation, and don't ask the numbers like straight away. Even I am guy, and I wouldn't ever give my phone number to strangers without having any form of cool/funny moments together.

Also, remember if you going to ask for a number, make sure you to have solid connection with the girl after you got the number. Remember to give her a reason why she wants to meet you again. If she is a tourist, tell her that you could be her guide and show her around for example.

You tried to N-close before you got her moist, so boom blew it pretty much.

You come on here saying "what do I do next time this happens", you should come on here saying "how do I make sure this doesn't happen again"

Trying to N-close when there's no attraction is epic AFC, you have to turn her on first. So work on that, not stupid shit-tests.

I rarely bother trying to N-close in clubs unless I've K-closed or had some pretty wicked kino going.

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All I can say is Bullshit to her statement.

You should've escalated more and built a bond between you two before taking the number.
Use kino, escalate, or at least go for a kiss before doing that.

I seriously never think of taking numbers. If your main goal is taking numbers, you'll get nothing but a number in the end and she'll start flaking you. Concentrate on the attraction and bond building and the number comes throughout the process.

Girls are more likely to give out their numbers when they're horny (their pussy is wet or moist). There's a science to this.

There are several ways to make a girl wet and one of the easiest way is to give her the eyefuck. When she eyefucks you back, number close.

Here, learn the eyefuck: how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-60.html

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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As someone else here mentioned don't focus too much on the numbers. You talk to a girl just to get a number?WTF is that? A girl is more than her digits, so when you go in don't set any goals. Yeah we want to keep in touch eventually but you should be genuinely interesting (and interested) and have a good interaction and the number will come.