I have a friend I cant just figure out. We have been friends for years and he gets so many girls its unreal. The craziest thing is that he doesnt even know how to talk to them. He has absolutely no clue. At first I thought it was just because almost every woman I know talks about how good looking he is. He has obviously always been that way and never really had to pursue women at all. The funny thing is that I think that the way he is is just a result of never having to work for it and the fact he doesnt work just adds to his attractiveness to women. He honestly doesnt seem to give two shits. The frustrating part is that I dont think this is something you can learn to do; well maybe you can learn to fake it. But his disposition is a result of a whole life of knowing only this. How can someone like myself, who has to put in work to pick up, ever learn to act that way? I remember a time when I was heavy into pick up a few years back and I really just didint care and I could look at a girl that was around and just know I would get her, and I would. So my point is that confidence grows exponentially; at least it seems that way.

This is common, the way to work it is to "act as if" you dont give two shits whilst running your skilled game. Good looking guys, who dont try hard, can often get hot chicks. They are thought of as a easy one-night stands or FB for woman, not usually relationship material. As someone less good looking you have to demonstrate better social awareness and value, but the not giving two shits attitude is always a valuable trait.

remember as you become successful with woman you really wont give two shits.