Okay so this is a stupid question because I personally hate Snapchat, however, GIRLS FUCKING LOVE it and it is the "new" thing. Every time I pick up a chick she always says, "Add me on snapchat" rather than exchange numbers. Now here's my question, how do you use this app to your advantage, considering all you can send at a time is one limited sentence and a picture. My main issue after adding numerous girls on this app is I can never put what I want to say in that one little sentence, and when I text them... suddenly I'm the fucking weirdo who "Didn't snapchat back." Like wtf? So if any of you guys use snapchat, how do you manage to do things like display higher value, express interest, set up a date, etc. when you only get to use like 10 words.

Don't always be the first to initiate snapchatting for a day. (Let her send the first one sometimes, but not always. Otherwise you would seem disinterested.)

Never send her more than 2-3 in a row with no answer.

Don't respond right away or you will seem needy.

Don't open her snapchats right away (unless she opened yours right away) because she can see that you opened them and how long ago.

Don't try to escalate. Much like texting, this is not a good way to escalate.

Do show her unique things about you that you can't convey through texting.

Keep it light and fun.

If she's sending you snapchats often, you can check if she's just doing it to you, or sending them to everyone. Go to your friend list and click on her username. If you're in her "best friends", ask her out.

I wouldn't ask her out over snapchat. A text might be better since many things can get in the way of her reading your temporary message.

Once in a while I'll take a picture of my face and draw something over it. The last one I did she screenshotted, so those seem to be a good idea.

Try to favor video snapchats, it's a lot nicer to hear the other person say a message than it is to read the message.

Never send nudity unless you are already dating and are comfortable with sending your dick to an online server that knows your name and phone number. I don't know if snapchat keeps your images or not.

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You're asking the wrong question.

What you should be asking is, "What am I doing that's causing girls to immediately Friendzone me to the point where they'd refuse to exchange contact information with me?"

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Chitown is right. I missed that. There is something you're doing that's making girls just give you their snapchats. Maybe not giving her emotional spikes?

Besides the point, you should always close with "Put your number in my phone. (hand your phone)" After she does that, call the number she put in it. If her phone isn't ringing. Tell her to "fuck off". If she tells you she'd rather get your snapchat, tell her to "fuck off". You don't have time to be bullshitted with.

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im 21 and in college, so all the girls im around use snapchat. it should only be used for funny/playful shit....like pictures of funny shit or a funny face with a caption or whatever. keep it light and playful....i literally could not think of a worse way to than asking a girl out over snapchat.

Well, that "snapchat" deal sounds like a load of BS. It's the first time I hear about that app, though. Thank the gods that trend hasn't yet reached my corner of the world.

Fuck this bullshit man. Just ask for a date on it or whatever fucking medium she wants to play around with. Stop trying to build attraction through anything but personal contact.

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