Good afternoon PUAS of the world, and thanks for reading the topic.






Its been a while that i have been noticing that when HBs get somehow more agitated while talking to each other, whether are some of my friends or just unknown ones, whenever i ask what is the reason or try to get into the conversation they reply with this "Nevermind.....its a women´s thing" or "Womens things.."..... And it basically feels like a block they can use, something to "Conseal" anything they dont feel like talking about at any given time, or embarasses them and keeps the Man in a way out of the conversation. So what is this womens thing cliche aswer ? And do we have any comeback to this kinda aswer ?







Has anyone come across to something like this ? Sugestions are very welcomed !








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It's Girl World. They're saying things they don't want you to hear. Spending all this time and energy wondering what it was is just going to drive you crazy and get nothing for you.

They whisper to each other, speak in code, use body-language and gesture code, agree on what certain things will mean before they go out, etc.

They have their own highly complex and multilayered language, you could spend the rest of your life wondering what they're saying and never get anywhere.

Just don't worry about it. If they wanted you in the conversation, you'd be in the conversation.

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Don't piggy back on other peoples conversations. If a girl is talking about something that she doesn't want to talk about with a guy around or that YOU don't want to talk about... (like period blood or mustard for example... I hate period blood and not a big fan of mustard.) then change the subject. Don't try and drag it out of her like a little kid who wants to get in on the conversation... Just talk about something else.

Thanks for the great feedback guys, truly helpful.






I dont want to piggy their back definitely, especially when the subjects are something non interesting to us. The main reason i posted this is sometimes i feel they are talking about something that is not a female subject at all, and they use this to keep attention and focus out of them.... or just to keep the Man away.



I had a girfriend who would sometimes use it....... what when they say it while talking bad about other people, man or womens ? (i dont think thats a girls thing, just a normal thing they want to be known) is there anything a man can reply when suspicious ?


Well i guess i could do the same by saying "this is a man´s conversation dear" or "Grown ups are doing business now love".....



Opinions are very welcomed