So I downloaded this app a week or two ago named Skout - it allows you to meet people and chat in your area. I used to use OkCupid for dating, but don't do much internet dating as I can just go to any venue and get a lot of numbers now.

Anyway, it seems like Skout girls are pretty easy to game, as it's not intended specifically for meeting girls for dating. They have a "lock" on the hottest girls - you can only chat with them if you send them a gift - so I send every girl a happy birthday gift, because hell, they all have a birthday eventually.

Anyway, there's this super cute Chinese girl on there, great face, great body - I send her the happy birthday, we start chatting.

After a couple days, we decide to meet up for drinks at a local bar (she says I was the first person she met off the app too).

She gets a coke, I get a beer. She states that she needs to drive home and she doesn't want to drink.

We chat, she is giving me super mixed signals. She tells me I'm "gorgeous", and keeps looking me directly in my eyes - I've had few people able to keep constant eye contact like that. We're sitting across from one another, so there's not really much chance to KINO - I maybe should have sat next to her, but the date was very short.

I ask questions, she goes on about her life a bit, I'm trying to be an interesting conversationalist. She goes on about how her ex-boyfriend was boring and all he wanted to do was play video games. I tell her that I go out a lot (not a lie at all) and she's more than welcome to come when I go out. I try to invite her out for Thursday, but she says no.

She goes on about how she likes to watch movies at her house, and I eventually say (towards the end of the date) that I should go back to her place to watch movies - she says no to that as well - saying that she has one of her classmates over there during the daytime to work on projects (this sounds like some weird sort of lie).

During all this time, she's telling me I'm funny, she tells me on multiple occasions I'm attractive, and says that she's nervous and she feels that I am nervous too (I was a little bit). I find out her dad is the CEO of a loan company in China.

She says she just got out of a three year relationship - and that she was a party girl beforehand.

So how do I interpret this? Was she interested? She's from an entirely different culture so it's hard to read. The fact that she turned me down and didn't suggest alternative plans makes me think that she isn't - but again, this is a difficult situation for me to read. She was definitely very big on calling me attractive.

At the end of the date she took the bill and paid for it, which also seemed like a bad sign.

She gave me a very DTF vibe the whole time, and said that after a three year relationship she wanted to be pretty casual at first.

So is she interested? Did she want to fuck me? If she wanted to fuck me, why would she turn down my offer to go back to her place?

My thoughts at this point are that I should message her again in a couple of days, and make it pretty obvious I want to come over and fuck her. Tell her I'll bring wine or beer and we'll watch a movie.

Does that sound like a good plan?

Asian girls love to push-pull a lot.

Aside from all of the DTF signs, she also DHVed herself to you which hopefully, you accepted with something like, "Cool." Unfortunately, she isn't horny enough yet for you to give you a bigger compliance. Start with something smaller next time and gradually intensify your verbal and nonverbal compliance tests.

If you're giving her the eye fuck and she's eye fucking you back, that's one big compliance already. Essentially, calibrate your compliance tests.

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Asian girls girls are fucking weird man. They play games like a sonofabitch.

I had one at my house one time at a party that wouldn't talk to me all night even though I was just being cordial.. I almost kicked her out for being a bitch. i went to take a piss and she was waiting outside the door when I came out ( master bath is in the master bedroom) with the bedroom door shut and locked.

I pushed her on to the bed and walked out BC I dont put up with that shit, but I hit it the next night anyway.

Just one example for u. I think she was Vietnamese descent born in America. The closer they are to true immigrants the crazier they get.

I'll have to keep that in mind. She's not even an immigrant - she's just over for a few years before moving back.

How should I contact her next?