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Don't ever expect her to stop being friends with these dudes just because you ask her to in the midst of your relationship, she will drop YOU.
In her mind, she enjoys the validation. The attention. And a good source of shit test ammo, ("Johnny touched me at the bar last night, how does that make you feel?") a lot of times, if she's hot her BFF's have emotionally abandoned her, so she turns to the men that haven't. You might feel threatened when you're dating a hot woman with a slew of man friends, but there likely not anything to worry about at all.
Remember, she is fucking you, and not them, and they were there 1st.
She actually thinks they are just friends, but they are most likely orbiters/clingers from 'back in the day', sure they want to fuck her, but they will never have the sack to try. She has 'friend zoned' them long ago. Enjoy the fact that she gets her drinks paid for, gets her car fixed, and a free meal now and then..... Get them on your side, maybe they will just dry up and cower away, Or maybe you'll all group up and have a bro date.
I agree with this I'm just gonna throw in my thoughts be the cool calm alpha one of the group. I had a similar experience at a bar a while back. Hot girl was there with her bf I was just talking with the ppl in group then I kinda zoned in on her. She told me she had a bf I just acted like I didn't hear it. Then like Heywood said the shit testing started she's like I'm going back find my bf are you jealous I simply said no I'm not a jealous perons. Then she said so if I bring him hear and makeout with him right in front of you you wouldn't be jealous I said I don't give a sh-t what you do shortly after I left with her. Anyway the point of that story was to give you an example of the shit testing Heywood is talking about. My advice is be cool calm and unaffected, also don't be a. Bump on a log be interesting be someone the ppl in the group want to know. Anyway hope that helps a bit good luck.
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