I'm in an odd situation with a lady. Closed her, and we've been casually having sex, and, that's about it.
This girl doesn't like giving head (she's 19) which, whatever, personal choice. Claims to have only had one boyfriend/sexual partner before. Claims to enjoy, and have experience with handjobs, but never does them... In the middle of one, she'll always just go back to cuddling. I'll ease her there again, and she'll just stop, moving her hand back up to my chest, or something.

Simply put, everything, but the sex, is just strange, and gets really awkward...
I'm landing on her being shy, but still...

The sex is fantastic, I'm just not seeing this going very far, and thinking of just tossing it and moving on.

Any other opinions?

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It's all in a state of mind. Be the bigger man, and you can never lose.

Is your goal to make her more than a F-buddy? If not, then why stop if the sex is good? She's probably in experienced. Tell he how she's making you feel. Communicate.

Take a shower bro ur dick probably smells like a caveman.

Then get some whip cream.

So? The sex is good? Except for the wiener spankage? Guess you don't really need her then huh?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Agreed. The girl needs encouragement. It takes 2 people to make a situation awkward. If you are relaxed and you don't acknowledge the awkwardness, she will loosen up too

Too many guys tense up during sex and lie there silently. Make sure you moan / groan loudly while she touches your dick, "oh yeah, that's feels so good" etc. If she goes outside her comfort zone, you should be rewarding her for it, shower her with praise if she sucks your dick ("good girl" / father to daughter style praise works well) etc. Explain to her how to jack you off. Jack off until you're ready to cum and let her take over just before you cum. Once she is more experienced and is confident she can make you cum, she will try more and more crazy shit in bed.

The girl has performance anxiety. We've all been there. Teach her. Guide her by pleasuring yourself to take the pressure off her. Put vocal trance music on, help her relax.

Good call with the vocal Trance dude!!

A good lover leads... is in control... She might be weird but it doesnt sound like youre leading her to ecstasy. After shes cum a few times and soaked thru the sheets she'll be happy to do ANYTHING you seem comfortable with and lead her there. Pick up some of the sex related books...

Before I knew PUA existed I was a relationship hound. I spent my time reading books on how to please a woman. I assure you it time well spent in the long term.

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My personal mantra:

"Every woman's a whore in the right situation"
"They're all selling it for something"
"She's sluttier than you think she is"