Team,

Hope everyone is well. I haven't been on these forums for a while but I need some assistance. Ill keep it short as possible.

Im really into this girl, maybe a one-itis etc... But whatever, i know the GAME but I'm kinda stuck on how to proceed. I want to keep my self respect and be THE MAN in the situation. I wanna have sex with her, or get a fwb going.

So this girl and I met a year ago, we were both super attracted to each other. She had a bf on and off that Im not sure she knew, I knew about. We hooked up but then she (I think) felt guilty, so months would pass before wed see each other again. We were in same community college. Anyways, I kinda got over it and broke contact and 5 months passed. In those months she's liked everyone of my instagram pics. Kind of like saying 'don't forget about me"...

So last week, I txt her lets grab a drink and she agrees and is excited about it. So we go get a drink and then bounce to a mutual friends bar and eat and keep drinking. Now this is where it sucks: Her bf calls and meets up with us.
Mind you, she's never mentioned him anytime we've gone out, and then he shows up. I mean, I've seen her instgram pics with him, so I think she knew I knew...

Anyways, the thing is she's on my jock now... txting me to come to parties at her house, she's totally trying to hang out now, telling me crazy stories of her going down on a girl, and how she let her bf have sex with her best friend in front of her etc.. she also mentioned "well he had sex with someone , now its my turn" etc.. Also, she's super into taking molly now!!.... she parties.

OK, so my question: I like this girl, I don't want to hang with her and her bf. How do I keep my relationship going without seeming like the boyfriend is getting to me? Do I deny invites to her house? do I brush her off? .... I think she's friendzoning the f**k out of me. She's talking about eating pussy and picking up girls with me/ for me etc...
I treated her like a bro, kind of. I had no other choice. This is never happened to me with a girl I like. F**K ... I feel friend zoned as hell, but I know she's still sexually into me. does that mean I'm not friend zoned? Im so confused , what would you do??

how do I stay alpha and strong when this sh*t is bugging me. ?? I don't want to avoid the situation and look like Im running and that her having a bf is getting to me. What should I do??? ... And please don't say drop her and f**k other girls. Ill do that regardless, but this is "the game" and i want to win. please help ......

chris

Easy, have her come to you, you don't go to her. Only talk sexual, use her for fucking. FWB only. Have her bring a 'friend'. Set up a threesome with her. In your mind the bf does not exist. Don't bring him up, when she does, dismiss her.

This girl is DTF YOU.

One word of caution, she is - CRAZY

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This. Have her come to you. Have her come over, just her, for a drink or whatever premise you need to get her to be with you, in a sex location, alone. Simple.

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Moved to general questions....

Please pay attention to the forum rules... this didn't deserve to be in the lounge, that is for theory only. This belongs in general questions.

Thank you...


Peace and Love,

Vic

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Hey Thx for replies guys!!

And I apologize to the moderator. I was in a hurry to get info. Wont happen again.

So, one more thing. She is going to be inviting me to a party this weekend(her bf and some gf's) will be there.
She was telling me to bring a hot girls. Everyone is gonna roll so who knows what the deal is.

BUT as you've mentioned, I CANNOT go meet her on her turf, with her bf present, and she has the control. right??
I am going to deny the hangout and ask her "come over next week, lets grab a drink"... - does this sound good?
How would you word denying going to her party and then asking her in an alpha manner to come over next week and grab a drink",...... Please help thanks a lot guys!!!

Don't ask, direct.

"I'm busy, I have to take my mom to get a pap sear (or what ever bullshit, or nothing more) Meet me at (whatever watering hole is closest to to your place) Sunday at 8."

Be your charming self. ESCALATE. Then say well this place sucks, let's bounce to my place, do some Ice Hole shots, and check out your Hobbit collection.

Make drinks, Put on your One Direction CD, Stand, offer your hand, stand her up, hug, unhook bra.

The rest is shitty coffee to wash down a Morning After pill.

Hand her, her high heels. Wipe your dick on a paper towel. Call your boss and tell him your going to be late.

Announce to the world; TODAY was a good day.

Spend the next 4 days wondering if the red spot is herpes.

Friday, do it again.

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haha!! thx brother!!!

Im gonna go for it for sure... Don't ask , direct. I like that.
ps. I just clicked the link on the bottom of your signature (page)
that 20minute coaching session I just bought will come in handy. Thx again man!