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Indirect game - Hide your intentions at first (indirect) and create attraction by being indifferent, aloof, hard to get, teasing, and pushing and pulling.
-AFTER you have attraction, you become direct in your intentions by making it obvious that you are interested. Don't need push pull and ambiguity anymore or at least dial it down a lot. And instead focus on making her comfortable with you, being fun, and physically escalating. Near seduction phase, don't worry so much about making her chase you, but rather persistently pursue her (turn on) without being needy of course.
I'm a good looking guy and get attraction easily, but lost so many girls by staying in the attraction phase too long which eventually lead to girls moving on because they think I am NOT interested. I was continuously being ambiguous, hard to get, and pushing and pulling when all I had to do at that point was just show her that I like her.
If the experienced members can explain why this is right or wrong, I think it will help a lot of other members as well.
Your issue is calibration. You are not calibrating properly. You gotta adjust your game and not just stick to some template that doesn't make sense for the situation.
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