I recently posted here about a hb9 that I'd been trying to hit up since June. I made a few escalation errors ie I didn't escalate at all... Up until a week ago she seemed to be investing even tho we hadn't fucked yet. Then boom. Gets flaky and she's been quiet for a week. I go and check out her fb page and she suddenly in a relationship.
Now most guys would be royally pissed and blast the chic for playing the field, but i can't be a hypocrite since ive been out on 3 dates with 2 other girls since we met in June.
Since I'm.studying and working, and a partime single dad, she knows im pretty busy.
Id like to keep the door open for future possibilities with this one, while giving the impression that I'm not able to give her any more time right now. This gives her an out so she doesn't need to explain why she's been avoiding me, and keeps the door open if shes single later in the year. Her last relationship was pretty short like a month or 2 long just before we met.
Has anyone here successfully done this and had the chic come back ever??
If so how did you deliver the "im too busy for girls right now, call me in a couple of months" statement?
Cheers
Mixar
Also, I realise that I've been nexted by her, however, we managed 6 date/coffees over the last 8 weeks, so I must give her some value. I figured I must have run a close 2nd here since we were talking heaps right up till last weekend.
And yes, I have a backup girl which I'm chatting to to set up a Friday night this week. This one is totally dtf too
CHAT
