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 Post subject: Persistence
PostPosted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:42 am 
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Sup fellas.

There's this girl I met in HS. Basically I had a crush on her in HS but I never said anything cause I was AFC. I don't see her for awhile cause she heads to college. Few years later she graduates comes back to town, we say hi blablabla. We make out. We date for a few weeks. On our dates we've just been making out and touching... I tried to fuck but got LMR.

Out of the blue one day she texts me this essay saying she wants to be honest w/ me and doesn't see us going any further and doesn't see a guy in her life right now. She said sorry and didn't want to lead me on.

We exchange a few essays back and forth lol. But anyways... should I be persistent with this girl. Hit her up every couple of days to get on her radar. I like her so I think that's what I'm going to do. This is how I see it.

A) Don't hit her up and don't get the girl.

B) Be persistent and get on her radar. There's a chance of getting her.

Option B I at least have a chance... so that's what I'm probably going to do. I just wanted to hear your guyses opinions.


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 Post subject: Re: Persistence
PostPosted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 3:08 am 
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have you considered option c?
you are like desperate like she is your only option.
when i meet women, i go out with 3-4 women at the same time. why go out with one? she might say exactly that.

anyway i should be asking money now for advice.


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 Post subject: Re: Persistence
PostPosted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 3:15 am 
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have you considered option c?
you are like desperate like she is your only option.
when i meet women, i go out with 3-4 women at the same time. why go out with one? she might say exactly that.

anyway i should be asking money now for advice.
Yeah I talk and flirt with other chicks... but I really like this one lol. Occasional make outs at bars and whatnot, but those don't mean shit. Maybe I need to build more relationships/connections with women, like the one I thought I had with this one.

I'll give her a week off before saying wassup again.


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 Post subject: Re: Persistence
PostPosted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 1:16 pm 
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Hey dude,


Don't say anything.. Sometimes it takes a week, other times it takes a month but a girl that you disappear on after a few makeouts will "ALWAYS" reach out again. And when she does you ignore her.. On the first text message. She'll just think " Maybe it didn't go through, I'll try again (chick logic)". I know you like her, since you "lol" everytime you make a comment about it as if you're trying to convince us you aren't as in it as you are. But I've been in your shoes in the past bro and I know what works.

Its like medicine.. It doesn't always taste good, but its for you and its the only way you're going to get better. Take your medicine bro and invest thinking into other people. She'll be back - just believe it. Women respond to the kinetic energy we send out into the world.

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 Post subject: Re: Persistence
PostPosted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:50 pm 
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Hey dude,


Don't say anything.. Sometimes it takes a week, other times it takes a month but a girl that you disappear on after a few makeouts will "ALWAYS" reach out again. And when she does you ignore her.. On the first text message. She'll just think " Maybe it didn't go through, I'll try again (chick logic)". I know you like her, since you "lol" everytime you make a comment about it as if you're trying to convince us you aren't as in it as you are. But I've been in your shoes in the past bro and I know what works.

Its like medicine.. It doesn't always taste good, but its for you and its the only way you're going to get better. Take your medicine bro and invest thinking into other people. She'll be back - just believe it. Women respond to the kinetic energy we send out into the world.
Thanks brotha!

I will take this advice.


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