Hey guys,

Well I have a question for you guys the title says friends with benefits, to do or not to do. In every guys mind on this forum is "Dude you struck the jackpot on this one." Well yes I did but this is unfamiliar territory for me as I have never had to do this.

We are friends for the last 2 years we have always been very flirty but never seen a lot of each other. As we were never single at the same time. The other night she sent me a msg that she is single i said thank god and we started chatting, she then asked about my sex life. Was a bit more discreet about this and well that made her want me more haha.

She then asked me why don't I get a fwb and I told her never had a friend that open minded but she looks open minded would she give it ago. The answer was awesome she then said yes and we laid down the ground rules.

But there is one problem where to do it as I currently had to move into my brothers house in the bedroom right opposite his, so that's a buzz kill. It wont feel right for me until I have a place to stay on my own. So guys is there any advise about these kind of things for me. If so please will you help with the first day how do I ask her to do the deed!

Her place?

Sort your life out. Too many people in this community don't mind putting in the time to pick up chicks but not the money to pay for rent away from the parents.

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Having roommates has never hindered me...if anything use it to help you.

Tell her ya'll can be sneaky. Girls love shady shit.

@ Pebble She still lives at her Moms house. And for your other statement. After being put in debt by my ex where I had to pay the fucking wedding then tells me she cant do it anymore and after I threw her out she just took everything I had so that's the reason I had to move back to start getting my life back in order and pay my dept. So maybe it is just shit timing for us. Hahaha

@Natty that's the kind of answer I was looking for. Think ile use that one lol

I understand you have your own room. Where is the buzz kill ?

I'm having the best sex of my life so far with a women that has kids around in the same house. Or when at my place I have 5 house mates. Never bothered me. This is not an issue mate.

Or get a motel/hotel room. Since you've agreed to have sex, you can just tell her these options and she can pick one. You can be quite upfront especially because this is a fwb and she will know exactly what is the reason for the meeting.