I have known a few girls now who are very nice to everybody but rarely go for more with guys...but their behavior makes guys think she wants more/there is a chance

So I went to this goodbye party for my buddy. There were a ton of people including this one hb8 i had met twice before. We instantly started talking for quite some time about every bs you can imagine...then I went to some other people and she started talking with every guy there like she always does...but not in a slutty way but more in an open,friendly kind of way. She also goes out with guys(my buddy for example) without anything happening. This leads to a lot of guys thinking they have a shot when in reality she friendzones everybody.
So then she says she hasn't been out for quite some time so we casually talked about doing something together in the near future.
So my question is: how do you work around this whole friendzone thing without being too aggressive and being too obvious you're interested in more ...

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"Kosmo, YOU!! are the Pickup Artist!!!

Yeh ,I've met many of these chicks, wish I can say I fucked some of them too but I simply haven't. They are annoying aren't they?

They are so friendly sociable, and pretty much give their numbers to everyone, I have even met some of them privately for a drink. But that's it , just a drink. Wasn't a date in her head until I escalated then she made her excuses.

My view is that every girl is the same, escalate and the truth will reveal itself, if she isn't down for it, move on, there is a girl near by that will be DTF.

Just escalate and hope she likes you enough to open her vagoo

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The thing is a lot of guys will interpret it wrong if a girl is acting friendly. If she smiles a lot etc. most guys will think "She's into me" but she really is just friendly.

That's why you escalate and flirt as others said.

yeah so I didn't mess up completely...how would you set the "date" up? drop some hints beforehand or just escalate when you're out with her?

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"Kosmo, YOU!! are the Pickup Artist!!!

"I'd like to take you out for a coffee/drinks etc, are you free on (some day here) ?"

This is direct no beating around the bush. I always do this and if the girl is into you they never say no. Also it's a good way to know if she is into you or just being friendly. Even if she turns you down you showed her that you are a man and she might introduce you to her single friend, you never know.

Also escalating when you are together is a good idea. But you have to let her know that you are interested in her more than just friends somehow.

Escalating is the best way of letting her know you are interested.

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just be more honest with your feelings, you don't have to explain anything but don't try to mask what you feel through your actions, it's no big deal if you like her and like flirting, it's no big deal if you want to see her and feel good being around her

and do yourself a favor and start being friendly to lots of girls and guys around too, you'll meet more interesting people and learn new things about people the more often you do, it can lead to lots of more opportunities to challenge yourself in life and you might not feel like it is as important or that you have to force anything or make anything happen with urgency, if you know it will always be there and there are other options