Have you ever stopped to think that a girl does not deserve you talking to her? What I mean is this: doing cold approach, you choose women based on their looks. You might say that you like her looks or whatever she's wearing. She is happy and says " I have a boyfriend". She looks at you for another second, then excuses herself and leaves.

I hate giving women compliments without even intending to. When I say I like something about her, she receives it as a compliment. Sometimes I even say: " this is no compliment, this is an observation". If most of the women gave something back I wouldn't mind. But in reality most of the women are not interested in giving something back.

When I look at the situation I described, I realize that she is giving nothing. I didn't ask for her boyfriend. I didn't ask her to leave. But I also realized that if I am not saying that, it causes her to be disinterested in any case. Quite a quandary.

Something else: pickup people say, they just want to talk to women. I dislike this term. Nobody just wants to talk to women. And being seen from an pickup-incompetent view, many women are bad conversationalists. Why would anybody want to talk to people like that. I don't want to talk to women and you don't either. So let's not use the phrase "I want to talk to women". We usually don't want to talk to women. To fuck them, we have to talk to them. It's a requirement, and you know it. Sure, you can make yourself believe that you like talking to women but in reality you don't.

Let's not kid ourselves here, you're hitting on her and she recognizes it and gives you a shit test which could be true or not and you're wimping out thinking she's not interested. Be a bit persistent, read her body language and have some responses for that shit test of its being handed to you on a frequent basis. There are countless materials written on this exact shit test. Pick one that fits your game or use your imagination which is a powerful weapon.

Sounds like you need to learn a lot.

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I have been doing pickup since 1st of March in 2005.

Great post . . . makes me feel 25 years younger. . .

Catch 22:

Actually get mature and learn to appreciate women. . . their quirks, their fucked up way of communicating. Learn to appreciate their fears, their desires, and the way they communicate all of these things. . . and they will MAGNATE to you. You will need to tell them off "physically" to keep them from raping you. (The younger guys might not believe this dynamic but this is probably the reason why those old creep teachers bang little girls and the little girls think that they love it)

But in order to get ^here organically means that you'd have to have some experience and years under your belt. I've tried to guide younger kids into it but based on what goes on in this forum, it seems ^this cannot occur through desire alone.

haha

kasabi, summarize what I wrote in my main post. I get the impression you misunderstood me.

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I have been doing pickup since 1st of March in 2005.

Hey Kasabi - Can you please explain what you mean by "You will need to tell them off "physically" to keep them from raping you." ?

Thanks

Hands up in the air as if to say "Don't shoot!!"

Ah ok, makes sense now . Thanks!