So, lately, I feel as if I've come down on a streak of terrible gaming. Simply not. pulling. at all. I feel like I'm being fun, I can be energetic, and despite being comfortable, I fail to pull. I feel as if I know why, however, I'd like to get a few opinions from some of you out in the community.

I've been watching a lot of very advanced RSD and PUATraining material, and, in the midst of everything, feel like I've been forgetting the "basics" of pick-up artistry that are essential to any successful gaming.

I recently departed from a relationship of 2 years; during which I would still game to some degree, but would never cheat on my LTR. Recently, (we broke up about 6 months ago, so that's what I mean by recently) I've really just been sucking. Following the break up, I've slept with about 12 girls (a few were girls I'd already slept with, and several were new prospects, many of which were in the 8-9 range). However, I've been feeling like my game is inconsistent.

I've been intimidated by the hottest of the hot; the 9's and 10's that I encounter. I'm able to pull most of my prospects by being fun and energetic, and using advanced techniques I've learned from the RSD and PUATraining guys, without using a lot of the basic concepts I used to use (negging, body language, good eye contact, not being try-hard, etc.). I feel as if my calibration is all off; and I feel rather unnatural when I have conversations about topics I know very little about.

I'm having a challenge lately in drawing women into MY reality, as opposed to getting sucked into theirs. I end up saying things to girls like "How have you been?", "what have YOU been upto?", what's new in YOUR life", which doesn't show any value for me. I've also been getting TONS of flakes. Lots and lots of numbers that end up going cold (I slept with a girl recently, and never saw/heard from her again, even though we were on talking terms for about 4 months beforehand ((I wasn't planning on closing her, sort of just happened)).

I just feel out of it. I just got off some medication that seemed to improve my game dramatically, but make me sort of complacent in other areas of my life that were far more important. Any ideas?

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12 girls in 6 months after a messy break up sounds good to me.

Your head could be still thinking about the ex, it takes time bro as you already know and you will doubt your game.

I guess I'm speaking for myself but I get way more flakes than I get lays but I do enough that can get me laid once every 2 weeks roughly.

I don't think you have lost your mojo. Keep at what you're doing is what i say, things will auto correct as you put your willy about and less flakes wi happen when you set the ball rolling..

I could be wrong though. But that's my 2p

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