So to cut a very long story short.. I was chasing some girl a while back who had a bf.
We were going to meet (when they were going through a rough spell), but it didnt happen and she kinda disapeared. We are friends on FB and I can tell recently that she is single now and becoming more active on FB.

I was kind of hoping she would message me again, but then one of my friends (who is a girl) said she probably wouldnt want to be that obvious or desperate.
I am on a dating site which allows you to see who looked at your profile. Sure enough, she has signed up to this site and has looked at my profile now -3 days ago.
There are prob 3 reasons she could have clicked on me..

1. She knows who I am - and was just curious to see my prof
2. She clicked by accident/was just surfing through all profiles
3. She knows who I am - and this is a way to show me she is back in the market and wants contact.

My picture is the same as FB profile picture - so she would def. know its me. even from the thumbnail.
To be fair, most girls dont message me on here. But when they view my prof, they seem to be pleased to hear from me after.

I have decided that it is worth one last shot and so think it is worth sending a message to her on the dating site. Does anyone have any suggestions for what I should send?..I have one shot at this so it has to be right..

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Just message her on FB. Say you noticed her checking you out on your profile on that dating site. Be c/f and just say if she was so desperate for you she could have just gotten to you on FB. Be c/f, make sure she knows you're just joking around. Then let the conversation fall naturally and say you should meet up. Simple.

My spies' have shared information, about you view/stalking me on PlentyOfFish,. This message will self destruct in 10 seconds.

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What about messaging her back on the dating profile?.. maybe something like 'you look very familiar.. '

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haha you have the right idea. you could even pretend to not realize it's her at all, then leave a few blank lines and a smiley

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