Hey!
What can i do to become the guy every guy wants to be, and every girls wants?

I want to get laid in 2013, but don't know how. Can kissclose without saying a word at parties (no problem at all) but it stops there. I don't know how to take it to the next step.

And also, how do i become a social beast that "everyone" likes, that is attractive and not afraid to apporach randoms?

thnx

first of all not everyguy wants to be like just one guy, as well as not everygirl wants just one specific guy.
the best way to increase your sucess with women is to know wich type of girls you want, get out of your confort zone and begin approaching
them. all of this along with grooming, dressing at yourbest, and just putting yourself out there where women are.

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What about outer game?
and what should i do when girls stares at me, and give me glances often? i notice that every day

How do you approach without seeming wierd og as a creep?

And what kind of dressing is cool and stylish?
I want to live the life to the fullest, how do i achieve this?

every answer is apprieciated!

Sounds like you have just read some material and are keen to become a pimp master dizzler.

But you lack experience, probably only slept with a couple of girls (correct me if i'm wrong?), you probably haven't cold approached at all, just friends of friends at parties, I can tell you right now, that its a complete different ball game. The ultimate test.

I just think you need to get in the trenches, take it one step at a time, be patient, learn as you go along and achieve your goal(s).

Nobody can answer "how to become a ladiesman?" in one post. You need to put in the graft and push the un comfort zones. Get in the field this weekend. Try your best. Learn from your mistakes.

Same thing applies with learning...well, Anything

Goodluck.

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I'vs slept with 0 girls...
Everything else was pretty spot on.
Thats why i'm keen to make a change, and a want help to do it!
Buy i do not know what to do..

My gut feeling was that you're a Virgin, but bah I guess you don't have to believe me..

I remember what it was like when I 1st took the plunge, so I'm gonna give you some tips of starting out:

- find a wing man (search the forums/ local lairs for a wingman, or if you have a friend that has a positive attitude to share the journey with)

- go out at least 2/3 times a week. (Your problems will auto correct when you keep going out)

- make them quality sarge's (going out 7 times a week but approaching 1 girl is not effecient use of time, set yourself a goal of how many chicks you need to talk to before you are happy to go home)

- don't get wasted, being drunk doesn't help you learn despite the confidence boost.

- do the little things that make big differences (make sure your fashion/grooming/hair cut is decent, these will help you big time.

- do some online game too, it will help you out big time with the texting etc, even get apps so you can do if in spare time like in cue's etc.

- ask your wingman to be brutally honest with you, if there any things that would turn women off about you. It's important to be brutally honest, and you do the same for him.

- push each interaction as far as you can, don't be afraid to over step the boundaries, you will become calibrated as a result.

- don't procrastinate, burn the boats, once you go out , that's it, no turning back, YOU WILL succeed if you do this, DO NOT DABBLE.

- if you still procrastinate, perhaps pay for some training to pull your finger out of your ass, (this one is optional , you won't need it if you don't procrastinate)

- this weekend, you are going out. NO excuses.

That's your lot for now, I wanna see you update this thread of how things went, make a field reports so people can help you along the way, you're not alone.

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Thanks man, this weekend i'm going on a trip to a city with family. Is this a good time to sarge a little bit?
I am afraid of what happening if i get turned down, i don't like that feeling

Can i approach if i'm waiting for train/bus or something like that? (i do that pretty much every day)
And what if i run out of things to say?
A wingman can be hard to find aroun here i live (not the us)

Come on pal.

Can't do the fucking for you too.

You can google your way to anything these days.

I don't live in the USA either by the way.

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This is not something easily answer as there are many aspects being cool guy.

The shortest answer is you have to build a lifestyle revolving being that cool guy...you can know how to talk to people and be social and attract women...but if you're consistently doing it...that' doesn't really make you somebody people want to hang out with because you're boring.

Focus more on working on yourself and diversifying yourself...make yourself a walking paradox of multi-facet like partier/actor/rapper/musician, etc.

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