i was on. Recent boys holiday to Magaluf in Spain

We were say at a table with 6 Scottish girls to our left, my friends were to my right (there were 8 of us) an I opened the girls with an indirect opener had a few laughs blah blah blah, anyway ..., 2 of my mates out of the group ended up having sex with two of the girls and they still speak to them after the holiday even now and the girls are thinking of coming down to Wales to visit them. Here's what I don't get the girls are tens and one of my mates is a 4 at best, but yet when I tried to make a love on that girl and go for a kiss on a drunken night out at the start of the holiday she just didn't want to know and only cared about my mate. I'm better looking than him, have a better physique and am an all round more fun interesting guy, my skill level with women is far superior to his and I'm not being big headed I just know this !!!! the only thing is I can think of why he got her and not me is because he and the other boy did have the first k traction with them the second meeting. They bumped into them and automatically recognised them from my group as I started a conversation which we all joined in just hours earlier, and with a little grafting worked they're way in. I'm thinking if it was two different guys would it have all worked out the same, we're they just right place right time and took they're chance. My game I don't think is yet good enough to have ruined what they had and made her focus on me and yet I wouldn't have done that because I wouldn't have wanted to cock block him, but I'm not gonna lie..,like me and many of my other friends, I am dumbfounded, and it is a simple case of why did she go for him when she could've had me......he got there first by right place right time, he got ghere first and made his move and she didn't want to go with two guys from the same group, right? Me gonna lie I didn't particularly make an effort with any of them, but fuck, she should've come to me when she had the chance rather than taking him surely

ps: this girl was in a three year relationship at the time and has synced finished with their boyfriend as it wasn't working out anyway, and through the joys of Facebook we also found out he was an ugly duckling, maybe she likes ugly guys

You're an asshole.

Your less attractive mate scored an attractive woman, had the balls to pick her up before you and now you want her. Your reasoning behind it is "you're better than him" instead of just being a mate and moving on.

Here's news for you dude: a woman isn't going to jump your bones if she's just scored your friend, especially if she just fucked him and wants to visit him. The only way she would is if your mate was the worst shag she's ever had or she's an absolute slapper. 10s rarely are slappers unless they're doing a solid for a friend who's interested in a specific guy.

Fact is you had no idea about what your mate did. What did he do? Did he game her? Is he even into PU? Maybe he's got much more to gain from it than you do so he learns faster and is naturally better at picking this up because of it. Maybe you're just as much an asshole in general as you come across in this thread and people see it?

Move on. Next time have the balls to make a move on the night you meet a girl instead of getting butthurt over your friend scoring someone you deem out of his league.

think you misunderstood what I was getting at here. First of all I'm not an asshole, secondly I don't want her, I give him credit for pulling her as I do with all my mates and would never in a million years cock block any of them. In fact I encourage them and help them along. The point I was getting at is the first night when everything was neutral and we met them I done all the talking because all of them are to shy to, he's not into pu and bumped into her by chance on the second encounter before I did and she automatically had comfort because she recognised him from earlier on in the day because he was with me. Nothing had happened to this point but he did a lot of grafting that night he run into her he spent over 150 euros on drinks for them both so what I'm simply asking is, if another one of the group had fallen I'm that spot before him would he have had that stroke of luck/chance as all the other guys described it, or was it just a mutual attraction for her in the first place, I'm simply questioning the theory of pua here, if I displayed I was the amog of the group and played it right why didn't she go for me, if its a case of chance, luck, or she was simply attracted to him that's fine it doesn't bother me, I'm just doing some analysis

You just said you tried to pick her up and that the reason you thought she wasn't reacting to you was because she already kissed your friend.

Yes which I didn't know had already happened before I had made a move on her