So after laying the groundwork while she was with somebody the cute barmaid at my local became single. About the same time I hired one of her friends to work for me part time. Suddenly I started getting more and more IOI's. She would greet/call me by name, say goodbye when I left the bar, crossed the street to talk to me etc. This culminated in us bumping into each other on the street late one night while I was watching a meteor shower. She stayed with me to watch and i lent her a jumper to keep her warm. We sat on the hod of my car for about 20 minutes and chatted.

I told her I had better get to bed and the star show wasn't all that had been promised! As she went to leave i said to her "lets go out sometime, give me your number". She then gave me her number. I as away the rest of the week on business so I sent her a text saying we should meet up when she gets back from her holiday that she also left for that week. She said she didn't know her work schedule for after her holiday and she would let me know when she got back.

Fast forward two weeks and shes back so I call her, she answers and we chat a bit about her holiday then i pitch her again on coming out. She says that she didn't get her schedule yet because she was so busy during her first shift. She says she will get it that day (this was yesterday) and let me know.

STILL NOTHING.

Ive got big DHV with this girl as I am one of the only successful young guys in this small town. Shes 6 years younger than me.

Feeling pretty lost about the whole thing now....tempted to bring a hot friend in one night to make her jealous or something. I will see her again at the bar this week most likely, completely stumped as to how to play it.

Why the hell didn't you make out with her the last time you saw her.

What happened here is she liked you in the bar then hoped you would make a move when you had some alone time. You didn't have the balls to make a move, so her attraction for you has taken a dive. Women like balls. You need to touch her, look into her eyes, get sexual. You're being too nice and polite. Get sexual and stop making excuses.

^ That's how you'll get laid fast consistently and regularly. But if you're still unsure of your confidence, polish your indirect game some more; you'll eventually get there when you get so good at it.

When you're already confident enough, be bolder and more direct. It's awesome.

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