So I'm over coming AA pretty, but I still need work. Performing magic tricks to people and entertaining them has really helped me -- come out of my shell. But its actually attracting them that messes me up, I feel like girls aren't attracted to me. Like I could see them, they're happy, open etc. (has promise of attraction) than for some reason (maybe I'm saying or doing something, or dress or tonality, idk!) and I guess they get nervous/lose attraction and it goes down hill. Or if they put their number in my phone, they don't respond. Not sure if I described it right, maybe you'd have to watch me in field to know. Hopefully my explanation helped.

Mainly, they're not attracted to me, as soon as I open my mouth it goes down hill. So I'm can't demonstrate attraction or push/pull or play hard to get maybe - or I could be not friendly enough. Please help me out

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One word: Kino.

Never underestimate the power of kino and know when to escalate sexually.

In night game friendly kino is always on(Know what friendly kino is). Kino Escalation is more mid-game and when you've got them hooked and genuinely interested in you.

Be interesting. Make up some crazy shit or spin a story to be the most amazing story ever told... even though it's about how you lost a sock("Suddenly a spaceship appeared and abducted my sock!"). Make it crazy but plausible unless you're clearly joking about something in the story. You need to be interesting to gain attraction.

Have fun. Just shoot the shit, have fun and don't care what anyone else thinks. Don't be a dick though and start acting like a "man" fist pumping and trying to act macho for the sake of it. If your mates are being twats just do your own thing.

Don't take up too much space. Think of taking up a lot of space as being a needy dickhead that no one wants to be near. If you need to be funny and joke around make sure you can do it in a tight enough but comfortable space and do it in a way that people aren't forced to move back away from you.

Smile a lot! Smile and laugh even if it's not a funny or interesting conversation and your friend is about to keel over and die. You come across as a fun and interesting guy: the approachable guy!

Remember the steps. Approach/Open, Mid-Game, End-Game. Approach/Open: "Hi... *Opener*" Mid-Game: "Blah, blah, I want to do this test on you... Give me your hands." End-Game: "I gotta go see my friends, i'll see you around." *n-close* *k-close* *f-close*

Know what you want from a set when you enter it. Is it a warm-up? Is it practice? Do you want to kiss this girl? Do you want to f-close this girl and never see her again? Do you want a fuck buddy? Knowing what you want out of a set puts you in a specific frame of mind. This helps you follow a specific train of thought in order to reach your desired goal. If you want to practice you're going to want to eject after five minutes so you really don't care if you come or go and just want to warm up and say shit to random people.

Play guys. Yes, play men. This creates high social value. When a chick sees you waving to a random guy she thinks you're important. When she sees you waving to a lot of different people she knows you're important. If people are randomly coming up to you smiling, hugging you and kissing you on the cheek you own that pub/club/social venue. You're high value, you're important, you're obviously a fun and interesting guy if so many people randomly greet you and it's incredibly easy to get that with guys.

Easiest way to tell you what's wrong is to see what you do. Where are you located? Find someone in your area and go out to meet women. I know you've been reading material for some time, so you should know your theory, but it's hard to say something without seeing it in practice.

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