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 Post subject: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 4:18 pm 
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Hi guys, I have really bad oneitis, heres how it started

My friend Alex invited me to a camping trip and I went, it was me, Alex, and 2 other girls.

This one girl, V, has been on my mind for a while, I've seen her around parties, thought she was cute, but never made a move cause I was being a chump

We spoke very little to each other during the camping trip that last 2 days.

On the last day, we lay down in a big tent and she puts her leg on me, then we start making out and have sex.

Every since, I feel retarded around her, and I want to make a move. She doesn't seem interested in anything other than sex, and even then, shes really weird and I find it difficult to talk to her. Last night I saw her at a party, I was talking to a few cute girls and I almost banged one in the bathroom, but even then I can't get her off my mind!

I feel like a complete chump, we haven't even had good conversation, I only felt chemistry when we were exchanging fluids on the camping trip. my brain implodes when shes around me

Should I delete her from Facebook and Instagram? I always find myself going to her pages. Shes SOMEWHAT in my social circle so I think that would mak we things wi weird

HELP


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 Post subject: Re: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 4:53 pm 
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What the fuck is wrong with you? Don't delete twitter facebook etc. If your banging her you must be doing something right. Stop over thinking everything. This means when you talk to her don't go back and analyze the conversation, don't try to think of clever things to say ahead of time either, that shit always comes of as cheap. If you keep having sex you should stop being so nervous around her, especially right afterward, pillow talk is always easy:)


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 Post subject: Re: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 5:01 pm 
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Chick wants sex... give her sex, bro.

That's just as simple as it is. Write her off as a skank you can call up when you're horny. Keep thinking of her in a negative way and only mentally link her sexually without the conversational stuff. Eventually you'll feel nothing for her.


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 Post subject: Re: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 5:32 pm 
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I REALLY want to bang this chick, although I think it would make my oneitis even worse. I don't know how to make a move on her because im so stuck in my head.


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 Post subject: Re: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 6:14 pm 
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What do you mean make a move on her? You just said she wanted sex and all she's interested in is sex ever since you slept with her on your camping trip!

Text her, ask if shes doing anything. She'll say she's busy, in which case she is, or she'll say she's doing nothing then you ask if she wants to come over for a movie in yours. A movie in yours is essentially "Lets fuck."


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 Post subject: Re: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 6:17 pm 
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You're placing to much value on the female. You have focus on her flaws. Remember something is in it for her. You're the prize not her.

Face to face, I like face to face. Get her face to face and tell her "she should be your girl because thats the only way you'd hit it on a regular basis." Make it sound like you're a good guy with standards and you only want sex with your gf. If she says yes good and now you got her on lock. if says no then move on. You'd get closure.


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 Post subject: Re: Bad oneitis..
PostPosted: Sun Aug 25, 2013 7:42 pm 
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Thanks for the replies guys. Im gonna quit going after her, im giving her too much attention. Ive asked her like 3-4 times to hangout but shes never down. + she replies to my messages like half of the time


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